OT My Plumbing May Be Doomed

Kiri's mum is having the other knee replaced. She is going to spend a month afterwards with her sister, and then a month or six weeks with us. This has required some minor modifications to the house. Mostly making sure there are solid handrails here and there, and putting up a second railing on the other sides of assorted stairs. Not a huge deal or anything, I did most of it last weekend. We are also putting a hand shower thing in the bath. K-mum is up this weekend and part of the week to make sure she has the navigation of the place down pat, and discuss how to avoid having her grandson knock her on her butt frequently. Our boy is a hug monster! While she is here, she bought the shower thing. Fancier than I would have chosen, but hey! it is her money. Then kiri tells me something that nigh unto made me fall into a ladylike swoon. DH says he is going to install it first thing in the morning after Ash is off to school. What? WHAT! Has he been reading my Dare to Repair books? Has he sat down and watched my do your own plumbing videos? What on earth brought this about? This is the man who loosened a nut I couldn't get leverage on (short person here, long armed tall person designed the vanity) when I was replacing the bathroom faucet two years ago, and is still complaining about having been forced to do plumbing! My only guess is that K-mum asked him if he felt he could handle the installation all right, and he felt backed into a corner and said yes. Now he feels obligated to actually do it.

I like my shower. I installed the tub hardware suite too. Water goes through it every time you turn it on. The shower only runs when you turn the shower on. It does not drip or leak. I just remembered that the original chrome finish line to head attachment is still up there because the threads are froze up so solid that you cannot turn it to screw it off. I think the nimrod handycritter that initially installed it crossthreaded it. That is going to have to come off to put the hand shower on. I would just leave it there because when you try and get it off the pipes start twisting before it loosens, even holding close with vice grips. The threads are probably trashed anyway. OMG, he is either going to break my pipes or actually get the thing off but have no threads left to get the new attachment on! One way or the other I am going to spend tomorrow soldering pipes! AGH! I'll try sweet reason first, but if he has his macho up I may be doomed.

NightMist Frazzled.

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NightMist
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I love it that you are the one who dreads having the husband do any plumbing, and therefore takes it upon herself to do the job. Bravo for title 9. Which reminds me. We were in a lunch place and I was at the cashier and was looking through my wallet for enough cash to pay for lunch for my wife and myself, and started to pull out the credit card and my wife stepped forward and said, "Here, I have enough cash", and handed it to the cashier. I said, "Thank heaven for title 9", and the cashier started to crack up with laughter. We all had a good laugh at that. John

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John

Maybe if we put our collective heads together we can find a way to get you out of this. Start by taking every tool imaginable that might be used for plumbing and hide them. Beneath the stack of clothes to be folded and put away would likely be a good place. Simple plumbing projects around here take weeks more than anticipated and usually run about 100 times more in costs. Nothing turns the kind gentleman I married into a vile monster like plumbing. Nothing. Polly

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Polly Esther

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Taria

OMG! Do NOT allow him anywhere near a wrench or screwdriver until this vapor has passed. A man who thinks he can do plumbing is more dangerous than one who asks "Hun, will you help me with this wallpaper cut?" Do whatever it takes to distract him from that task until you can do it, or can hire someone to do it. Otherwise, just go ahead and book the repair job.

Sunny I feel your pain

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Sunny

Ha! He didn't get around to it! Odds just went up dramatically that he won't do it at all.

I've snitched the hardware and had a look. I may end up soldering pipes anyway, or taking the thing back and getting another. The water runs through the support arm, so I might not be able to mount it seperately. I would have to pry it out of the package to know for sure. I hate those molded plastic packages. It might be the better course to just take the connection off the pipe and put a new one on. Solve that cross thread problem once and for all.

NightMist

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NightMist

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