Even though our yard is tiny, we have been trying to grow more of our own food. Some things you have to buy plants for because they are extremely difficult to grow from seed, or propagate by other means. Before I order plants from a new place these days, I pop over to davesgarden.com and check the watchdog, and run assorted searches to see what I can find out. It is a pretty good method for seeds, less good for plants. Why is it good for the one but not the other? Because people are stupid.
I keep seeing negetive nursery reviews from people in warm climates complaining that they ordered plants from a place in Canada-New England-Wisconsin etc. and did not recieve them in a timely fashion. It always turns out that they didn't bother to read the shipping information, and expected plants they ordered in January to show up within two weeks.
Then there are the ones that order plants from a company 3000 miles away and get all huffy because the plants are wilty when they arrive.
Of course we must not leave out the ones who fancy that a bare root plant (a plant forced into dormancy and shipped with no soil) is likely to be more than a stick with roots on it. It seems that some of them expect to get a lushly leafed plant full of fruit and blossom.
Then you have the ones with very unreasonable expectations. The "I ordered an apple tree online and all I got was a two foot tall plant that took FIVE YEARS to bear fruit." crowd.
The lady who ordered a rosebush and was "shocked and appalled" to have it delivered by the mailman, had me giggling. The one who's nut tree bore "big green globs instead of nuts", got me to laughing. The one who was very disappointed because her plant was green when she had ordered lavender just finished me off. DH came a running after I had sprayed the moniter with coffee and was quite certain I was choking to death.
When it comes to plants I think I shall have to just stick with my policy of ordering from the place nearest to me, and make inquiries of other gardeners I know. Though that is not much help when it comes to certain hard to find things. There are two places I have found that sell Dittany of Crete and they are equidistant from me.
NightMist has a certain expectation that people will read up a little when starting a new venture, and is so is often surprised.