OT - Red Friday

Many of us have been touched by the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq in one way or another. Many of us have had friends and loved ones over there, some have come home safe and secure while others have come home with a flag draped over their coffin. A friend who's husband did a tour in Afghanistan just before he retired from the Army sent this to me several months ago. I was cleaning out my mailbox today when I came across it and re-read it. It had a new meaning for me since my nephew just came home from Iraq after two tours.

PLEASE READ THE ENTIRE EMAIL AND YOU SEE WHAT IS MEANT BY RED FRIDAY.

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a Marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together. After we boarded our flight, I turned to the sergeant, who'd been invited to sit in First Class (across from me), and inquired if he was heading home.

No, he responded. Heading out I asked?

No. I'm escorting a soldier home. Going to pick him up?

No. He is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq . I'm taking him home to his family.

The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. It was an honor for him. He told me that, although he didn't know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldier's family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days.

I turned back to him, extended my hand, and said, Thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do.

Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom.

"Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having Sergeant Steeley of the United States Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign."

Without a sound, all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane, and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American.

So here's a public Thank You to our military Men and Women for what you do so we can live the way we do.

Red Fridays.

Very soon, you will see a great many people wearing Red every Friday. The reason? Americans who support our troops used to be called the "silent majority." We are no longer silent, and are voicing our love for God, country and home in record breaking numbers. We are not organized, boisterous or overbearing.

Many Americans, like you, me and all our friends, simply want to recognize that the vast majority of America supports our troops. Our idea of showing solidarity and support for our troops with dignity and respect starts this Friday -- and continues each and every Friday until the troops all come home, sending a deafening message that ... every red-blooded American who supports our men and women afar, will wear something red.

By word of mouth, press, TV -- let's make the United States on every Friday a sea of red much like a homecoming football game in the bleachers. If every one of us who loves this country will share this with acquaintances, coworkers, friends, and family, it will not be long before the USA is covered in RED and it will let our troops know the once "silent" majority is on their side more than ever, certainly more than the media lets on.

The first thing a soldier says when asked "What can we do to make things better for you?" is .."We need your support and your prayers." Let's get the word out and lead with class and dignity, by example, and wear something red every Friday.

WE LIVE IN THE LAND OF THE FREE, ONLY BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE!!

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Mika
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I've gotten the same chain letter e-mail from about 20 people. It sounds so nice and easy. Wear red to support the troops. But how does wearing red help soldiers fighting in other countries? They will never see it. They probably won't hear about it either, even if someone could manage to convince millions of Americans to do it.

It seems to me that it would be far better to show support by doing something tangible for a soldier. Write a letter. Send a care package. Join in one of the many group efforts to supply various items to the deployed troops. Make a quilt of Valor for an injured soldier. Find out if any local men are deployed and offer to help their immediate families with a home maintenance project, babysitting so the one parent here can run errands, or just invite them to a good meal.

Sure those things take more time, money, and effort than just putting on a red shirt every Friday, but they will also make a real difference to a soldier or a soldier's family. Debra in VA See my quilts at

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Debra

Red Friday was started by 2 Canadian soldiers' wives in the spring of

2006 - it has grown from their idea and does not only represent support for the troops who are in Afghanistan but who are in other parts of the world and are in Canada too. The wives have kept a scrapbook of the national red Friday rallies which has been delivered to the troops - they DO know that they have the support of their fellow Canadians - the support will continue as a non-partisan group of red'wearing Canadians gather every Friday to pursue their regular activities. The "wearing o' the green' means something internationally so why not the 'wearing of the red'? Red is also the colour of Canada - from the original red ensign to the red maple leaf flag of today. jennellh (change the mail to news) in Ottawa, Canada

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jennellh

Sorry if I've hurt your, or anyone else's, feelings. I've never seen anything ever be true in a chain letter. This letter is little different as makes it sound like it was thought up specifically by a US resident for the US troops, with no mention of how US troops abroad would ever know about it. It never mentions Canada at all.

I am very surprised that one of the calls to wear a color actually has a benefit for someone. Perhaps that is because it was started and done well by that pair of Canadian soldier's wives for their husbands, and then grew slowly enough across Canada to keep it's original spirit.

The only way anyone benefits from one here in the US is if you sell an item, and most of those items are sold by people who pocket the money themselves. Equally upsetting is the "wear the proper item or get beaten up" attitude that now accompanies many of these things. Add that these calls to 'wear your support' come so often in the US that it now seems to be more like a wear the color or logo of the month club and you will understand why I feel the way I do about them.

Debra in VA See my quilts at

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Debra

: Sorry if I've hurt your, or anyone else's, feelings. I've never seen : anything ever be true in a chain letter. This letter is little : different as makes it sound like it was thought up specifically by a : US resident for the US troops, with no mention of how US troops abroad : would ever know about it. It never mentions Canada at all. : : I am very surprised that one of the calls to wear a color actually has : a benefit for someone. Perhaps that is because it was started and : done well by that pair of Canadian soldier's wives for their husbands, : and then grew slowly enough across Canada to keep it's original : spirit. : : The only way anyone benefits from one here in the US is if you sell an : item, and most of those items are sold by people who pocket the money : themselves. Equally upsetting is the "wear the proper item or get : beaten up" attitude that now accompanies many of these things. Add : that these calls to 'wear your support' come so often in the US that : it now seems to be more like a wear the color or logo of the month : club and you will understand why I feel the way I do about them. : : Debra in VA : See my quilts at :

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I ran across this song written by a Canadian for Canadians and thought you may appreciate it too.

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This is also the place to write to our Canadian troops.

~KK in BC~ who's oldest son is joining the forces and who's middle son is helping train the cadets at scholarship camp and who's youngest wants to join up with peace keeping when she is old enough.

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~KK in BC~

Deb - you didn't hurt my feelings at all - I am not a polical person by any means - the wearing of red is purely to indicate a support of the armed forces in whatever capacity they are serving. If the number of persons involved in such a project keeps on growing from the original idea of two wives, it could also work in other countries too? There is a write-up on snopes and also 'red fridays' does come up on google. No one benefits monetarily from any of this - in the usual ho-hum existence of a nation, the rallies have served to unite the general population in recognition of the troops. While a person may or may not support the government proposals regarding the current state of world events, it is not the members of the government who are following through with the day to day realities of any decision of those in power (president, prime minister, etc.) but the man/woman on the ground. If you like, the wearing of red is a grass roots indicator of support for those persons who bear the brunt of the consequences made by the governments of peaceful nations around the world.

A recent event in Canada through Tim Horton's coffee shops was the purchase of gift certificates by patrons to benefit the troops in Afghanistan (where a Tim Horton's was opened up on base a couple of years ago) - the idea being that, a soldier was treated to a taste of home by another Canadian.

jennellh

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jennellh

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