OT: This should not happen

Children should not precede their parents in death. My daughter who was 51, passed away nearly 2 weeks ago and I am heartbroken. She was very ill in Hospice. I could not go to see her as I am hooked up to many machines. My ex was in the same position. Too many machines and in hospice too. Fortunately my 2 other daughters were able to say goodbye to her. Her son, my grandson, is in the navy stationed in the Pacific also got leave to say good bye. My saving grace is that she will not suffer anymore

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Rita
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Oh my goodness, Rita, what a very heavy burden to bear. We are so very sorry. Sending gentle hugs, Polly

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Polly Esther

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Taria

Dearest Rita, My mother's heart hurts with you. This is a heavy burden to carry and I will pray for you to find peace and comfort. While you may not have been with her physically, I know your love and devotion must have comforted her in her last days and without doubt she must have felt your presence as much as if you'd stood by her bed. I truly believe the bond between mother and child transcends time, distance and even death. She still knows your love, as you still know hers.

Peace, Sunny

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Sunny

Oh Rita, I am so sorry.... I will never know how you feel but know that I have you, your dh and family in my prayers.

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Debi Matlack

Oh, I am so sorry for your loss and will be thinking about your family.

Louise in eastern Ontario

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Louise

Rita, dear, you are so correct- this should not happen. I am very, very sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself during this heartbreakingly difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hugs,

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Leslie & The Furbabies in MO.

Oh, Rita...this brings tears to my eyes. My prayers are with you and your family. May you find comfort and peace of mind.

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Betty in Wi

Rita, I'm very sorry for your loss. This should not happen.

-- Anita --

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Irrational Number

(((((Rita))))) I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers!!!

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Charlotte Hippen

I am so so sorry Rita for your heartache.I send my sinecere condolences to you and yours!

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Estelle Gallagher

I am so sorry.

(((((Rita)))))))

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Cindy Schmidt

Gentle (((((HUGS))))) and prayers for healing are on their way to you and your family. ME-Judy

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ME-Judy

My Wings are on their way. I'm so sorry

Butterfly

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Butterflywings

There are no words to convey to you the sorrow I feel for your losing your daughter. I can think of no greater pain in life than losing one's child. Please be comforted in the knowledge that you will love each other always. She is only a memory away.

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Phyllis Nilsson

Rita, I will keep you and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. {{{{{{{gentle hugs}}}}}}} Your love and support of her, even from a distance, are things no doubt she could sense and feel.

G> Children should not precede their parents in death. My daughter who was 51,

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Ginger in CA

Rita, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

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Louise in Iowa

Rita,

Many, many hugs headed your way.

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Donna Aten

"Rita" wrote in news:YHf8i.9015$% snipped-for-privacy@bignews8.bellsouth.net:

You are right , children should not precede their parents in death. Sometime life is cruel and they die before you... I am so sorry this had to happen to you..

FiederEls.

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FiederEls in NL

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