Well, my slow burn/long fuse husband is livid. He is formulating an email to the superintendent, assistant superintendent, principal, vice principal, and head of pupil services as I type this.
As we walked out of the office, his comment to me was, "next step, board of education"...and he proceeded to make comments that I wouldn't respond to.....not until we were off school grounds, anyway. Because I'm at the school quite a bit, I don't need to have them turn against me or our son, so I refused to say anything until in the sanctuary of my own car.
Needless to say, the responses were rehearsed, the expressions were blank and clueless, and there were too many times where a question was asked and when my husband went to respond, he was run over by the person who asked the question....none of the 3 basic questions that my husband brought up were even remotely addressed.
In this meeting, I let him take the lead while I took notes. I've been meeting with them and trying to deal with this for practically the entire month of February, and haven't gotten anywhere, so I tagged in my partner and he's running with it better, and surprisingly calmer than I expected.....we shall see what happens next as I've requested a meeting with the assistant superintendent (on behalf of my husband, but he and I will both be there), hopefully this Friday (since hubby already has the day off) to address this....and then we progress from there if need be.....