It was me who discovered it had been sent to Canada, after querying the time it was taking to arrive in Scotland. Clearly, the shop did not know that anything had gone awry, and the shop owner still insists that she has NB, Canada on record and I still insist I entered United Kingdom. For what it's worth, there IS a St. Andrews, NB, Canada. I did suggest that perhaps the shop has had a customer order from there in the past, and the server or computer program or whatever "autofilled" in the address wrong at some point, using this old order. What else could have happened, for my copy of the order to say International and have no hint of Canada, and for the shop's copy to clearly say NB, Canada?!? This is the only answer that my IT partner could suggest.
On Sunday I was contacted by the owner with this opening gambit:
"I know you are upset regarding this order....as was I. I apologize if I made you feel that I was "blaming" you. I was willing to admit we were partially responsible for the mix up. However, I was very disappointed with your demeanor.....this was not totally our fault. No where on this order did it have UK or Scotland. But....that's over and done with now."
She "was astonished to find this package in our mail.. returned to us... from Canada. The Postal Service never ceases to amaze me" It never ceases to amaze me either, and since my sister works in it, she was going to see what could be done on Monday but was relieved of that task by this communique from the shop. My sister said that since the shop owner was still essentially laying the blame of the parcel going to Canada at my feet - even partially - I should ask for a full refund and just walk away from the whole sorry affair.
Two fabrics were damaged in transit, one of which was the real reason I placed the order - an older print of tiny white boys and girls with black hair and shoes on blue, from which I am making a baby quilt for a high school friend who is pregnant with her first child. I don't know what possessed me to pick this fabric when I have so many others, but there you are. I'm down to tiny scraps, and I'll just have to put the blocks on point and add border(s).
So the owner offered to refund the entire order, or refund me for the two damaged fabrics and she would ship the rest of the order to me for free - "please provide correct address". I took the high road (and I'll be in Scotland before you, and the parcel at this rate) and said I would pay for the order minus the two damaged fabrics. Maybe my sister was right and I should have washed my hands of the whole deal.
As Paul Harvey says, "And that is the rest of the story".......