OT: Back....And I saw Dave!!!!

I am back!!!! DS and I are moved into our new home. I bought a home in a "historical district". We moved in about 10 days ago. Many thanks to Deb and her DH and my parents!!!! They helped us move all the heavy stuff and everything I hadn't gotten moved. Deb also helped me get my craft room put together! Thanks so much Deb, you have no idea how much you helped me out. I finished unpacking today.

My craft room took the longest. I knew I had alot of stuff but I had no idea just how much until it was time to unpack it! I then had to find a place to put it, that was a trick I have to say. Deb was a godsend. I am now ready to start getting creative again. There are a few things that I've got on my mind.

Deb's DH also come over last night and got my internet/wireless working properly. I am so happy to have internet again and more importantly, wireless! DS is very happy about that.

The house I purchased is a cute 2 bedroom home. It's considerably smaller than the home that husband and I bought, but after DS graduates he's planning on joining the military and so it will just be me. I don't need a large home to take care of. I will take pictures after I get my quilts hung on the walls, and post them on my webshots or my blog....I'll post which one. I plan to paint the inside but not until after the first of the year. I need to rest my knee after the move, it really took a toll on me. (I'm also back to fighting with Worker's Comp, or should I say my attorney is. They don't want to pay for my Synvic injection up front, They want me to pay for it, $800 then file a claim with them. Oh, that cost is per injection and it's a series of 3 injections! They approved it so I don't see what the problem is! My attorney is hot about it!)

On the divorce front.....It is a sure thing. He isn't interested in counseling, just wants the divorce. There are other things that have gone on that I won't go into but the divorce is going to go through. I think that it will take a while as there are two houses to sell and some things that I am not going to budge on that will have to be worked out.

On a positive note the day I moved in Dave called and said that he was coming through and did I want to visit. It was good to see him. He's busy with work and thinks about all the friends he's made on RCS. It was so good to see him and visit with him. It was a stroke of luck that he called when he did as it was the last day that I was using that particular cell phone number!

I have a new email addy, it's not much different than my old one. You can email me at: kendalee2ATcomcastDOTnet

Take care to all, I've missed RCS!!!! Kenda

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Kenda I am glad to hear you got settled in your new home. Good luck on getting everything you want accomplished with your divorce. Stick to your guns for what you want! :-) I am looking forward to seeing pics of your new place! How fun that you got to see Dave...sometimes it's strange how things just happen...like how he managed to call on the last active day on your old number..(twilight zone music in the background....) Take care of that knee, take care of YOU and we have missed you too! Linda

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Linda C

Kenda, it's wonderful to see you back! I'm glad things are moving towards a point for you and that you made a new start. You sound a lot better than your previous post. You're a strong lady and deserves the best - never forget that!

- Huge Hugz - Judy

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Thanks Judy! I feel so much better. I have to say that I wouldn't be nearly as strong if I didn't still have a son at home, I have to be strong for him. Curling into a fetal position isn't an option, though there have been times that I wanted to!

We are all starting to relax, even the animals. I didn't relize just how tense things were at home until we moved and could relax. The cat is starting to grow his hair back, the dog is extra laid back. DS is watching T.V./movies in the LR instead of his room. I sleep a bit better, but more importantly I am laughing again and that feels so good. Tonight my parents came over; we had supper, talked and played video games (I was suprised they wanted to play! And they really enjoyed it) We laughed alot and I felt so relaxed, more than I have in years; it was a good feeling.

Now, if I can just get Worker's Comp to straighten up and pay for the knee treatments and get the divorce over things will be as near perfect as I'll get!

One thing I did learn from all this is not to compromise. I went along with things that I didn't like (with DH) because he was my 3rd husband and I thought, "maybe it's me, perhaps I'm not being flexible enough, or I'm ......(fill in the blank)". I relize all that did was pretty much make me a door mat. I was alone in a marriage/home with someone; I'd rather be alone than lonely with someone. However, I have loving family & friends that I won't be lonely! {{Big Hugs to all my friends on RCS!}}

Kenda

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Kenda

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