OT-update on missing son

Figured I'd better check in, besides just lurking in the background. Just want to thank all of you for the prayers, good thoughts and well wishes. I really can't understand why my son hasn't been found, unless, as the detective in charge of the case says, perhaps he doesn't want to be found. There have been no sightings for some time now. They (my son and daughter-in-law) have had many problems in their life. Yet, if it is true that he had been seen and spoken to at one point, the person in question was talking a bit "off center". I just hope nothing untoward has happened to him. I just wish he would realize that his mother cares and needs to know he is OK, even if he is "in hiding". I have gone to my Dr due to other family stresses going on for me as well, and she, believe it or not, has added my son and my family to a number of prayer chains that she is involved with. Never had a Dr relay any kind of belief in prayer before. That is so uplifting also. She, too, is a blessing for me. Just wish we could get my body functioning properly again. Thanks again, everyone, you are all so special. It is so unbelievable that so many care that don't even know me. All are truly a blessing. Can't thank everyone enough. God bless, Marlys in Indiana

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Marlys in Indiana
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Marlys I am so glad that you let us know what has been going on......for a few days I have been wanting to post that you should keep in touch with the group, but I wasn't sure if it was proper ettiquette........(Just decided I don't care about ettiquette for this type of thing anymore, I will just post if I am concerned about someone.......)

I am sorry that your son is still missing, I wish you all the best.

Michelle Giordano

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Doug&Michelle

Thank you for the update. I am very sorry the news is no better, and that your health problems continue. I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts, and keep hoping that you get news of your son soon.

It rather looks like your son's continued absence is deliberate, even if his vanishing was unplanned at the time he went. I pray you get news and peace of mind soon.

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Kate Dicey

Thank you for taking the time to update us. Like the others I had been wondering what the latest news was. Still hoping you get some real news soon. Please take care of yourself {{{{{{{{Marlys}}}}}}}}

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Sewingsue

Marlys, I'm so sorry that your son's disappearance continues to be such a source of anguish for you. I truly wish you well, and hope you have news soon.

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BEI Design

Thanks for letting us know what is going on. Sure hope your health problems will improve, and that your son will contact you. Barbara in SC " ...

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Bobbie Sews Moore

understanding doctor. I will continue to pray for you.

Olwyn Mary in New Orleans.

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Olwyn Mary

Perhaps to a fault I am an eternal optimist and I just KNOW he will make his way back in his own good time. It sure makes Mamas sick with worry in the meantime though...so I continue to think of you often and keep you in my prayers. Joy

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Joy Hardie

What a joy to have a doctor like yours! I can not imagine the anguish you are suffering, but we all have to believe he will contact him Mom soon. You and family are still in our prayers. Emily

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CypSew

G'day Marlys

While I haven't replied to your posts previously I have been reading about your missing son and just wanted to say I 'do' know how you feel because my daughter did something similar. It's been over 11 years and still no contact, although I did get an address some months ago but for health reasons I can't travel to find her. At least, I now know she's alive and well.......but for many years I didn't have any idea and this is extremely traumatic. You will go through all the emotions and I'm sure you've been through lots of those already and until he wants to return there is absolutely nothing you can do......believe me I've tried everything. In DD's case it's her husband and his family who have turned her against her own family and all her friends. Some day she'll come back into my life, but I sure as heck wish it was sooner rather than later and truly hope you don't have to wait as long as I have.

Best wishes.....most of all, look after yourself. My thoughts are with you.

Br> Figured I'd better check in, besides just lurking in the background.

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HC

I had an Indian doc for over 20 years. During one conversation, prayer was mentioned. His answer has stayed with me: Sometimes doctors need help from God, and sometimes God need doctors to be his hands. And prayer never did anybody any damage.

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Kate Dicey

What a horrible experience for you. I also fear that I probably have also "lost" my second son as well since his wife has tried to turn him against me since she met me and in this instance with my first son, she has acted like she is "all knowing" and we have finally told her mother to keep her away from us from now on. She has caused me so much heartache, but she has pretty well managed to (somehow) convince my second son that I am a bad mother, for some reason. I don't understand that situation either. Anyhow, enough of my whining for now. Thanks again to all for the caring. Marlys in Indiana

unbelievable

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Marlys in Indiana

She deserves a kick in the butt. I love my DMIL.

Even my ex-fiance's mother was honestly a beastly woman, but I never tried to turn him against her, I even phoned her lots after we broke up and I re-married just to keep her up to date on her grand daughter.

Definitley deserves a kick........

I hope everything will be ok. (((((HUGS))))) Michelle Giordano

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Doug&Michelle

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