OT - Back home again ! (long, possibly boring medical details)

Hello dear RCTQ folks,

I was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis at just before my 20th birthday in 1992. So I've lived with it for about 17 years now. In the beginning, I had a permanent ulcer and my colon looked like hamburger meat (I have photos). The flare-ups of my condition went down to 3 a year, then twice a year, then annually, then once every couple of years.... I think my last flare-up was about 5 or 6 years ago. I took part in a dietary study of ulcerative colitis patients at Ninewells Hospital in 2003-2004 and that really helped to isolate which foods I should not eat, which in turn improved my condition. I cannot thank the staff at Ninewells enough because I see a gastro-intestinal specialist there once a year to assess my condition, and with the help of the NHS I can afford to take the medication, daily, which I need. When I moved to the UK 15 years ago, that medication cost 10 times as much in the US (after converting dollars to pounds and so on). So I not only was able to receive the best medication for my condition, I was able to be monitored and ultimately, vastly improved. My condition was so improved by 2002 that a biopsy was ordered, to make sure I had actually been correctly diagnosed with ulcerative colitis.

Fast forward to 2010. Apparently during pregnancy, there are so many hormones floating around in the pregnant woman's system that conditions such as ulcerative colitis improve! Who knew? However, after the baby is born and the body goes through a crash course in normalising hormone levels back to pre-pregnancy levels, the ulcerative colitis can flare-up. I didn't know this, no one explained it to me. Two weeks ago, I picked up the Noro virus in the hospital while we were there with Tristan for his 6-week check-up; we hadn't been anywhere else that was a public place and even though I washed my hands before we left the hospital..... well, I had sickness and diarrhea within 36 hours, and my body worked for 2 days to clear itself of the perceived "poison". Afterwards, I was left with all the symptoms of an ulcer - lots of blood loss and an inability to be too far from the loo for very long. After this had gone on for 10 days it occured to me that it might not be gastroenteritis, it might be an ulcer. So I went along to the GP for an appointment, which was cancelled (long story) and by the time I was seen it had been 2 weeks since I had contracted the Noro virus. The GP wasn't used to seeing an ulcerative colitis patient, and couldn't pick apart if it was 1) a flare-up, 2) a reaction to the baby being born and the colon just needing to calm down again or 3) a reaction to the effects of the Noro virus. So she called Ninewells and they insisted I be admitted to the Gastro-enterology ward. And that ward said, "No babies- the risk of picking up MRSA is too great".

Therefore, I fed Tristan on Thursday before he left, and then I was given steroids to calm the colon down. I had another big dose of steroids in the morning, but by then, I had had blood tests, an ECG, x-rays of the colon, etc and the consultants had come to the conclusion that the colon looked fine, I didn't fit the profile of a person having a flare-up, and I could be discharged. Also, they changed their mind and said it would be fine to breastfeed while on steroids (and I'd only had 2 doses anyway), and that I wouldn't have to taper off of them either, because it hadn't been a long course of the drug. That was why Tristan blissfully breastfed during the ward round when 3 consultants and 2 nurses trooped in; he was wearing his "Superbaby" blue velour suit, which went down well with the staff, who were also impressed with his size (!)

So we're home now, trying to catch up on sleep and Tristan is feeding like we've starved him for about 3 weeks. He and I didn't feel well when he was 6 weeks old and supposed to be having a growth spurt, so I suspect he's having it now, though he's always been a "hungry baby" and seems to eat continuously. Mark's mum is flying up to Scotland today and we are going to have her help until Thursday I believe. We may even get the house cleaned. Then we will go down to visit Mark's parents, and his brother and sister (along with her 2 small boys and husband) will all be there for the Easter weekend. That will be exciting, because only Mark's sister and Mum have met Tristan so far.

Thank you so much for all your thoughts and good wishes. I hope that I can really recover now from the pregnancy and birth experience. It is not nice to be in low-level pain of some kind for 2 months, as I'm sure that many of you on here will agree with.

Love, Jo in Scotland

P.S. Tristan has started to say "ello" occasionally when we say "Hello" to him. Can an 8-week old really speak or are we just hearing what we want to hear?

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Jo Gibson
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Great to hear that you are home again and feeling better! Please take care of yourself and Mark and Tristan. I'll be in touch.

Megwen

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Megwen

Jo, although you've certainly had a rough time of it and have my sympathies for that, I'm doing a happy dance that you're home with Mark and Tristan and feeling so much better! We're glad you're back!

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Louise in Iowa

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Taria

Jo: Jo; While I don't read anyone's medical details (Thanks for the warning ... I really appreciated that,) I skimmed this briefly to see you are doing okay again. Good to hear! I've kept you and family in prayers, and wish you all the best of health. Can an 8 wk old infant speak? Yes, certainly! ;) (Who am I to argue with a new, just out of hospital mom?) Pat in Virginia

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Pat in Virginia

Glad to see you back home again! I'll bet your "boys" are happy, too! Take good care of yourself! - We're all thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way! ME-Judy

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ME-Judy

So happy to see your post and know you are home again and feeling better. I'm sure both of your boys are even happier! Donna

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dealer83

We are all just so happy to have you back home and on the mend. What a brave daddy Mark is. My own DH would have just stood in the front doorway and yelled 'Help' until someone can to his aid. Polly

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Polly Esther

awww, good to hear he is not bothered other than the quantity. that will build up quicker than you'd think as long as he keeps trying and from the sound of it he'll be right in there giving it his best. soon he'll be full up properly. i used to have a glass of beer in the afternoon to relax me and it makes good milk i'm told, all those B Vitamins in the beer, if you can cope with it, of course.

its good Grandma is there for all of you. i'm sure wee Tristan is having fun teaching yet another adult how to run his world properly too. i like the elephant over the parrot too. he remembers how things ought to done for the wee lad. those parrots can be a pita, its always the same thing over and over again... polly want a cracker. i mean who the heck wants crackers when there is all that lovely milk going for a song. i'm very happy you're all managing so very well. hugz all around, jeanne

"Jo Gibson" wrote ... Nothing disrupts Tristan's breastfeeding. The whole house could fall down and he wouldn't notice. The trouble is, I've been dehydrated, so I'm not making as much as he would like. This has not pleased HRH Tristan. Master Tristan is making his likes & dislikes known just now to Mark, as the baby monitor is letting me know.

Grandma has arrived and shown him the parrot and the elephant on his "baby gym" and Tristan has decided he prefers the elephant, and Grandma is okay as well.

-- Jo in Scotland

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J*

Glad to hear you've got things sorted and are on the mend.

I bought a copy of "Medication and Mother's Milk" by Thomas Hale, it's probably the most comprehensive reference to possible affects of medication on the breastfed baby, so if you ever want me to look anything up, give me a shout!

Seems like one of the advantages of socialised medicine is costs aren't just allocated to the person who's ill, I had such a bad case of mastitis when DS was a baby that I needed IV antibiotics, so they found somewhere we could both be, in an insurance based system, a breastfed baby would not be a reason to get a private room! Infection control is a different issue, but then they let him visit you, so I'm not sure that makes sense. When I had an allergic reaction back in October and because it affected my BP, they put me on a cardiac ward and the poor nurses were rather bemused at me asking them to put my milk in the fridge!

Cheers Anne

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Anne Rogers

Hi Jo, so very pleased you are back home.

Your milk supply will return - Tristan will make sure it does. Like J*, I used to have a stubbie of light beer a day when breastfeeding my daughters, lots and lots of milk and very contented babies. Hugs for you all.

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DiMa

that's awesome news, JO!! Musicmaker

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Musicmaker

I'm so glad things have gotten sorted out and that you're reunited with your family back home, Jo. I hope this is the last little set back and things move on to great health and happiness. Best wishes to you ALL! Kathyl

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Kathyl

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Taria

I can concur with that! Best of luck for a full and speedy recovery and a restful holiday with the family.

I swear James said NO at that age! ;) He was a hungry baby and on solids at 12 weeks. Very frowned on, but... Well, as he's now about six foot two and very bright, I don't think it did him any long-term harm!

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Kate XXXXXX

Well we heard a definite "ello" at 6 weeks, we were eating dinner with family, so it wasn't just us that heard it, iirc he was lieing on a blanket in a corner rather than in anyones arms so of course we all turned round, so it seemed to work!

That talker is called Nathanael, who now at age 6 is convinced he's heard baby sis say his name. She's 10mths tomorrow, doesn't time fly!

Anne

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Anne Rogers

Mum says Big Sis learned to talk at 8 months and has never stopped! ;) That's 55 years of nattering...

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Kate XXXXXX

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