Dear Noreen ,, this angers , frights , pains leave in a tunnnel in our hearts, and we can climb out of the tunnel. bur we can`t close the gates tottaly, Thus with time , we might stumble back into this `tunnel` , but having dared once to step out of it , we know we can do it again ,,,, Yes Noreen with time it will be better. Last months while organizing a closet i fopund a sweater my mother knitted for my daughter , and a skirt i wove for my mother ,,, i held both items related to her , and it was nice to have something she made , and something she wore.. Just this days my Last Work of art i embroidered her face , and it was not easy , but OK . When we are Daughters we forget that part of our mothers` behaviours Have Nothing to do with us ,,, It comes from another part of her life, and we are just accepting the End result of something that happened to her. Maybe years before we were born. Thus we should be angry about the deed , not the person doing it. mirjam
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17 years ago