It was leaned that using a larger spur may not always solve this problem. Should you not find a larger spur quickly. You may want to try the following: Locate the centers on both of the ends of your piece of work and drill a
1/8" pilot hole Take a fostner bit of the same OD of your spur and counter bored X 1/4 - 3/8 deep one end of your blank. Now mount your piece of work by inserting the spur in the c'bore hole. Secure firmly, rotate by hand first until your satisfy with the centering, wobbling and adjusting of the live center as needed. Then start at your lowest RPM. Others are using a pin chuck with a locking pin inserted. The principle is the same as counter boring for the spur. It may be more suited for larger pieces. What they do is they drill a hole of about 1" deep and insert a pin mounted on a Morse taper shaft to suit your lathe. Some people have custom made heavy duty spur and still have problems. This is more so when using end grain black locust. FWIW