Heather,
Hey, at least with your wedding, everyone matched. Mine is a bohemian/Cosmo type wedding. UUGH! They are even going to have a hookah tent at the reception. UUGH!!
Redheads can wear red, they just have to be careful of the shades of red they choose. Go on gurl, be daring!!
I ended up going "simplistic" as a method of design. It seemed the easiest way to get red into the design and not look stupid. The problem is that different red products are also different shades of red. I ordered CZ garnet briolettes and Swarovski light Siam because the Swarovski Siam and/or garnet is just too dark.
They wanted necklaces and earrings, so for the bridesmaids I did sterling rolo chain choker length, with two long tails ending in garnet CZ multi-faceted briolettes that hang down about 4 inches (one longer than the other). Connecting the choker to the tails I used a light Siam 8mm swarovski round crystal with two ornate bead caps. How simple can ya get? hehehe The red colors of the CZ and the Swarovski's are just a bit different: the CZ briolettes are not as dark as you'd think garnet would be - which helped but the 8mm swarovski linking the choker to the tails is far enough away from the briolette that the shade difference didn't matter.
For the earrings, I used the same 8 mm Light Siam Swarovski crystal and the two ornate bead caps, but added some dangly stuff to the bottom with light Siam satin bicones. Light Siam satin is a tad darker than straight light Siam... but it all worked out.
Heck, the bride and the mother of the bride got some great jewelry - fun to design and create cause I got to use some of my favorite colors. The bride's engagement ring is an Aquamarine, so I used different kinds of aquamarine and pearls for her necklace and earrings. Mother of the bride got peridot and colored pearls for her necklace and earrings cause she is wearing a black dress.
Maybe I'll post the pics after I am done...
Sterling