Shirley new web site address.

Exactly my point. Don't men go for younger women (batting my eyes, innocently)

I met someone from an internet dating site last night and told TOO many bad stories. I scared him off. No kidding. LOLOLOLOL -- I can't help it that my life is, uh, interesting.

Much love -- Becki

I don't know... they just want booty this, booty that... no body wants just to be FRIENDS... they want to be friends WITH BENEFITS. Now just how does one night stands benefit me I ask ya? After that one night any way? LOLOLOLOLOL

Hell yeah, men go for younger women... MUCH younger than both of us dearie! ~smirk~

Now you tell me, why do middle aged, graying, balding, pot bellied men think it makes THEM look younger to be with a young chick-a-dee??? ... it actually makes them look OLDER by comparison.... I just don't get it!!! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

OOPS I think I just fell off my soapbox, must be the advancing years creeping up on me. hahahahahahahahahaha

Becki, just remember the online bozos might not luv ya, but I do!

Karleen -- I've decided to put on my ad that my insides are more attractive than my outsides, and if they bothered to get to know me, they would like me. I might word it differently so as not to sound bitter.

LMAO. (He wasn't that cute anyway and he had food on his shirt. Probably from his last date?)

Much love -- Becki

You know what amazes me? The number of men who don't even smile in their pics and many actually look mean! There was one heavy set dude with long gray hair and reflective sunglasses, the harley davidson guy kind, who actually advertised that HE was THE alpha male and wanted a woman who would do everything he said. I nearly peed in my pants laughing... oh yeah, we'd make a good pair now wouldn't we? hahahahahahahahaha

My g/f who got me to online date to begin with said she discovered this: dating sites are like a huge smorgasboord of women and even the losers and nerdy types can't resist playing around. I was beginning to feel like a prize ham hock in a meat market, so I took my photos down. I figure if a guy reads my profile and wants to get to know me FIRST, then he can look at me. If my outsides are MORE impt than the insides, he ain't the guy for me anyway.

But I've decided it's all a royal waste of time. I think I'll learn how to knit or something. Or hey, how about this, get back to beading????

Hugs sista

Karleen -- my dad got remarried at the age of 67, after my mother died. It was a real blessing as he is a doll. It is a good thing. Life goes on for those of us on this earth.

I can't help myself. I love men. LOL. I will be that old woman dating the old men in the nursing home. You know, the one that everyone else talks about? LOLOLOLOL

Much love -- Becki

I'll probably be right there with ya! LOL I love men too. Just wish I could find me a good one. And you too!!!

Shirley, a friend of ours is a florist and happily gives away petal. I'll bet all you have to do is ask, especially if you ask the florist who will supply flowers.

I love that you harvest frog spawn. Both for the ecologically responsible practice. And also for the image of Shirley and Harry escaping from Hogwarts and gathering supplies.

Tina

"Shirley Shone" wrote

My mother lives in a retirement community. When I visit her I always feel young and beautiful. Full figured to be sure, but not dried up. My dad used to live there before, and he always commented on how hard it was for a man to be left alone with so many women there. So what do you mean THE old woman dating the old men!

Hey you gals, don't forget that I divorced at 35 and remarried at 50. To the most wonderful guy. We had each processed most of our dysfunctions by that time, so that though we talk about wishing we'd gotten together sooner, we actually got together at just the right time.

Becki, any man who you scare off isn't worth your time! You remind me of my marvelous friends from martial arts. Real renascent types. A real find.

Tina

I will ask GD where she has ordered the flowers from and to ask about the petals.

My little pond is heaving with tiny frogs. I have put some planks of wood leaning up the side of the pond from out of the water so they can get out easily. Shirley

In message , Christina Peterson writes

OK you older gals (and guys), I found a site that's a hoot! It's called suddenly senior, you gotta check it out! Be sure to check out the jokes and cartoons.

Can you change the subject line now. I do not know how to. Feeling fragile because my crazy heart has been misbehaving again this morning . Shirley

In message , Vibrant Jewels writes

Shirley, I hope you're feeling better now. Does resting or doing something calming like beading help steady your heart again?

I have missed heart beats, and when it beats again it is so hard it feels as if my heart will jump out of my chest. And sometimes it wakens me during the night -- what fun, NOT.

Take care.