Been mulling this over since finishing a piece for my local stitching group's Pride display. We argued for weeks about how to portray Alan Turing. Half of us wanted to focus only on the enigma work and the early computer stuff, the other half felt skipping the 1952 conviction would be whitewashing. We ended up going with his own mathematics as the pattern itself, spots and stripes grown from his reaction-diffusion idea, so the design carries meaning without spelling anything out.
Now I'm second-guessing it. Is it more honest to decorate a hero with the beautiful things they made, or does a memorial owe them the harder truth too? A banner with gold fringe and fish scales on the highlights feels like a celebration, but is celebration the right tone for someone the state destroyed? Curious how others in the community handle this. When you stitch a figure for a parade or a hall, where do you draw the line between honouring and sanitising? No wrong answers here, genuinely torn.