Thought I'd post an update since I know this group is full of prayer warriors and supportive people.
On 2/8, a child on the bus called my DS gay, then tripped him right as he was at the top of the stairs to get off the bus. DS was able to catch himself, but his glasses got a little bent....fixed them, and on
2/9 reported it to the principal since the VP wasn't in yet. He talked to DS, then talked to other kid (who said, no, I didn't say that, and he must have tripped over my binder), then back to DS where he repeated what the other child said. SO....now my DS believes that the principal thinks he's a liar after being told that he could go to one of the adults for help. Another part to this is that the other child has consistently been in AES (aka In school suspension) since the start of the year, and my DS is on the A-B honor roll and had AES for 1 class period, ONCE, for talking after the teacher asked him to quiet down 3 times. ok.........2/13, there's a school assembly and the child and his friends sit directly behind my son, and persist in calling him gay throughout the entire assembly.....
2/15, this same child starts by pulling my son's hair, again calling him gay, and throwing punches at him...starting at the middle school, continuing while they are loading more kids at the high school, and not stopping until they get to DS's bus stop (our driveway). The other child made it into a joke that DS was flinching every time he threw a punch, when in reality, DS was blocking the punches, as he learned to do in karate. Kid throws another punch, DS blocks it, kid grabs and holds DSs arm and punches him in the head with his other hand (nice huge, red spot on DSs forehead). Kid does it again, holds DSs arm, and this time, punches DS hard enough to bend the nose pieces of DSs glasses.Immediately took the kids to the middle school, so VP saw the red spot, the bent up glasses, etc. Child was confronted and initially said that was how DS looked when he got on the bus....yeah, right. Then they pulled the bus video....oh, and they questioned the bus driver because he didn't right up the incident nor did he report it to the school. The other child said that everything he did to Thomas (as reported by T) is what T actually did to him.....when both the bus driver and the other child were confronted by the video, the bus driver first said that he didn't think it would show anything because the boys sat in the first and second seats behind him (which means he should have heard everything that was going on), and then the other child admitted that it happened the way that DS had reported it as happening.
Needless to say, I have more gray hairs as well as an appointment with Juvenile Intake on Friday.....the other child is guilty of harassment, assault, and battery....and it's not being handled properly by the school since all this child has ever gotten in response to his behavior is to be sent to AES, regardless of what the offense is.
SO....that's the latest reason for not quilting.....on a trivial note, I'm also not quilting because DD has decided that she wants her room repainted, so the quilt will be on hold until the room gets redone....