Thank you everyone, for your hugs, advice and good thoughts. You have no idea how much it has helped me, and continues to help me... It's very quiet here. The only way I could get through such a silent flat was to put everything Sasha-related into the spare/sewing room and shut the door for a while. It's getting a bit better now. I can go in there and sew, and I'm slowly putting her things away, or giving things away. One thing I can't part with is the last quilt Sasha helped me with... I'm making a different one for the baby (who will never know). Once again, thank you group. I'm so glad we're here for each other.
-- Jo in Scotland