OK, still reeling after the weekend.... DD#2 turned 10 last week, so we had a party on the weekend. All were well behaved and polite except for
1 girl, who is new at school, so we don't know her that well.To cut to the chase, they played happily with DD's toys, but this new girl asked if she could have some of the cutlery and plates from my daughter's dolls house (Madeline - the Paris house, now discontinued! grrrrr). We said no, because it is part of a set. She was fine about it, but after she left we went to tidy up all the toys and guess what, the pieces that she had picked out and had asked if she could have were missing.
Well, we've tried not to jump to any type of conclusion, but we've hunted high and low for them, to no avail! Since this incident, DD has said that there was a query whether she had taken one of the other friend's keyrings, whilst at school a couple of weeks ago. She was the last person seen with it, and no-one knows where it went. It is difficult to ask, my French aint that good! she is new in school and her parents aren't very approachable. I've suggested that she asks her friends when she goes back to school after the holidays, if they may have seen them, in the hope that this girl confesses.
We've tried finding replacements on the internet and they either don't exist or they are in collector boxes and cost a fortune.
Anyone else ever an incident like this and what is the best way to deal with it. I feel hurt that we welcomed her in and this is what she did, my daughter is heartbroken to think that a friend could do this. I suppose the only thing is it is all part of growing up! and finding out that not everyone is so respectful.....
Janner France