OT, more of my inane ramblings

got the oven fully cleaned and back in working order. left the broken lightbulb insitu cuz the one place dh checked didnt have that type of bulb, only the screw in type, this one is a baton. we'll find on after xmas i think. we did find, when the bulb came out, that the rubber? washer thingy that fits over the edge of the lightbulb cover to seal the bulb from the food steam etc.was still there. this is good as the one on the secondhand cover we got was hard, brittle and barely there at all. anyhow dd and ds will get their papas roast leg of pork and vegetables on friday as expected. she was a bit worried that wasnt going to happen so she'll be happy now.

so this past week got the fridge cleaned, the freezer deiced and clean and the oven clean. that is the most cleaning i've done since march. got the bedroom ready for dd and her so and their cat to arrive tomorrow evening. have washed down some walls and ceilings around the house too. dont know why i am in cleaning mode but it keeps me busy i guess so not thinking too much about stuff. still dont really know what dd and ds want this xmas to be like. its clearly wont be the same as always but whether that is how they want it or not i dont know. we dont have a tree yet. usually dh gets one from one of his florists that sells fresh ones each year. but this guy now has lots of little shops/stalls all around the west area and dh hasnt actually met up with him when picking up so who knows if we'll have one or not. i dont have my helper to get the boxes of decorations out of the ceiling anyhow. :( ds has been working hard the past two weeks and we've not heard much from him cept the odd occasion on facebook. he works two jobs. one intermittenly but flat out long days when that one is on. the other is a part time fish shop with as many hours as they'll give him between the first job. gotta keep the dollars rolling in anyway ya can.

while rootling round the net i came across an article about how chickpeas will lower your cholesterol. i love oatmeal but only in winter, not during the heat of summer. chickpeas i'll eat all year round and from the sound of it they're even better than oatmeal. they dd suggested chickpea sprouts. i've done alfalfa sprouts for sandwiches and mung beans for stir frys but not in years. so along with all the hummus i can eat (wheres the low fat, low sodium chips) and putting the cps whole into various stove top and/or oven cooked one pot dishes i'll have to try some sprouts. seems you need to eat 25 ounces a week to get the job done in a hurry. all that fibre oughta help in other ways too, i hope. i love hummus and the addition of whole cps in other dishes are also yummy. j.

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That's good to know about the hummus. I can't abide the stuff, but dd really loves it. I'll be sure and tell her.

I would imagine you feel a pretty good sense of accomplishment this weekend, Jeanne. Maybe you'll feel like sewing something soon.

Hope so.

Cindy

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Wow, 25 ounces a week of garbanzos would just about be the end of me being in the room with anybody else. I do love hummus, at least the way I make it. I don't like it with cumin at all. Or tomatoes. But I like to eat it with toasted croissants, or heated up pita bread. I'm just not sure I could eat 25 ounces a week of anything that isn't a cake. LOL Now we see the problem with Sunny's big backside.

As for Christmas, well....I hate it. I can't remember but a few genuinely happy Christmas's ever. When I was a child, we were dirt poor and usually sick during the winter. It was always a time when mom and dad were fighting. Just when I was old enough as a teen to buy gifts with my own, earned money and really enjoy Christmas, my dad died. And it just never really was the same again. Until I met my now- husband. And then on Christmas Day, six weeks before we were to be married, his grandmother (who we both loved completely) died while we were opening presents. Right there under the tree, with little kids all over the place. Bad scene. And now, we live up here far from family. My in-laws are sad about us not being there. It's probably my mom's last Christmas and .... I'm not going to say anything else about that. And my younger sister is still refusing to speak to me. Money is tight, my husband is in a precarious position at work, my sons can't find work and are both deeply depressed because of that, and I've not managed to finish a single project in the past month. We won't be exchanging gifts this year cause money is so tight.

And now that I've blurted all that out, I can just say that I've forced the household to get the tree decorated and a ham in the refrigerator (which my older son refuses to eat) and I've bought silly reindeer antlers for us all to wear Christmas morning while we eat something scrumptious for breakfast. Then we break out the Scrabble board. And we play all day. Scrabble, Yahtzee, Monopoly, you name it. We'll just sit around watching DVDs and playing games and eating way, way too much. It's as merry as our household gets and I think it may work.

I wish I could send you some merry too. Wish I could pop over with a bag of the candy we're making. And some really noggy eggnog. I hope you and your kiddos and DH all can feel some of the goodness of the season and feel your hearts lighten and smile.

Hugs, Sunny

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that site has 1737 recipes all with chickpeas in them. might be a few there that appeal to you, Cindy. i wonder if plain hummus is just too plain for you. the blandness doesnt appeal to everyone.the chickpeas have very little flavour on their own. they're nice and creamy tho for a dip. i like mine with plenty of garlic in it, lots of lemon too. as for the tahini, i get plain sesame seeds, lightly toast them in a drypan, then whizz'em to a paste in the food processor, voila!! tahini. make lots and save extra in the fridge for the next batch of hummus. has to be cheaper that way than buying the tahini paste. fwiw, j.

"teleflora" wrote ...That's good to know about the hummus. I can't abide the stuff, but dd reallyloves it. I'll be sure and tell her.I would imagine you feel a pretty good sense of accomplishment this weekend,Jeanne. Maybe you'll feel like sewing something soon.Hope so.Cindy

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i found some for you then, Sunny. they all have chick peas in them. they look yummy enough but i've not tried them.

25 ounces would be about 3 cups in a week. i'm sure there are enough recipes you could add chickpeas to and come pretty close to that. soups, stews, casseroles, salad, hummus and now these three sweet recipes.
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may well be more that i'm tired now so i'm going offline soon as i post this. fwiw, j.

"Sunny" wrote ... Wow, 25 ounces a week of garbanzos would just about be the end of me being in the room with anybody else. I do love hummus, at least the way I make it. I don't like it with cumin at all. Or tomatoes. But I like to eat it with toasted croissants, or heated up pita bread. I'm just not sure I could eat 25 ounces a week of anything that isn't a cake. LOL Now we see the problem with Sunny's big backside.

As for Christmas, well....I hate it. I can't remember but a few genuinely happy Christmas's ever. When I was a child, we were dirt poor and usually sick during the winter. It was always a time when mom and dad were fighting. Just when I was old enough as a teen to buy gifts with my own, earned money and really enjoy Christmas, my dad died. And it just never really was the same again. Until I met my now- husband. And then on Christmas Day, six weeks before we were to be married, his grandmother (who we both loved completely) died while we were opening presents. Right there under the tree, with little kids all over the place. Bad scene. And now, we live up here far from family. My in-laws are sad about us not being there. It's probably my mom's last Christmas and .... I'm not going to say anything else about that. And my younger sister is still refusing to speak to me. Money is tight, my husband is in a precarious position at work, my sons can't find work and are both deeply depressed because of that, and I've not managed to finish a single project in the past month. We won't be exchanging gifts this year cause money is so tight.

And now that I've blurted all that out, I can just say that I've forced the household to get the tree decorated and a ham in the refrigerator (which my older son refuses to eat) and I've bought silly reindeer antlers for us all to wear Christmas morning while we eat something scrumptious for breakfast. Then we break out the Scrabble board. And we play all day. Scrabble, Yahtzee, Monopoly, you name it. We'll just sit around watching DVDs and playing games and eating way, way too much. It's as merry as our household gets and I think it may work.

I wish I could send you some merry too. Wish I could pop over with a bag of the candy we're making. And some really noggy eggnog. I hope you and your kiddos and DH all can feel some of the goodness of the season and feel your hearts lighten and smile.

Hugs, Sunny

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I often find myself cleaning when under stress. It's mindless, it's useful, and it gives me the illusion of control. Take that, Entropy, you sucker of souls! I clean at other times too: control is good :-)

(((Hugs))) for Christmas. Roberta >got the oven fully cleaned and back in working order.

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Jeanne, it's great that you're DOING--it doesn't matter why or what.

As for Christmas, I'd be surprised if your DD and DS either know exactly what they expect for this Christmas either. The important thing is that you'll all be together. You'll all have to start figuring out what Christmas will be like now, and it may take some time.

((((((Jeanne and family)))))))))))

Michelle > got the oven fully cleaned and back in working order.

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that is probly what is going on with me then, Roberta. who knew. i guess it gets something accomplished, fwiw. still no idea what the kids expect tho. shrug, j.

"Roberta" wrote ... I often find myself cleaning when under stress. It's mindless, it's useful, and it gives me the illusion of control. Take that, Entropy, you sucker of souls! I clean at other times too: control is good :-)

(((Hugs))) for Christmas. Roberta >got the oven fully cleaned and back in working order.

j.

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verbally attacked??? now thats a real nice way to treat anyone, specially this time of year. go figure. 'shows ta go ya' something weird must really be going on inside 'her' head. shrug, j.

"Taria" wrote ... That is a bunch of bad stuff working against you. I think we all see too much tv of outlandishly happy people. In reality there is stuff like you describe. My niece married a Jehovah's Witness in October. She hasn't converted but has caved to celebrating holidays. I saw her mother the other day and I was verbally attacked. Guess the no holiday stuff not working out for everyone. : ( We won't see DS this year as he and his gal are both working. Hopefully we will connect the Sunday following. He has been in law enforcement for 5 years now so we are learning to be flexible. DD has a new house all decorated 4 miles from here. There is always a ray of sunshine. : ) Gotta work with what you have. Hugs, Taria

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i guess i could have asked them but i'm not sure how they'd react. i dont want to mess things up anymore than they are already. i just dont know what to do or how to act anymore. i could RTFM if only there was one. shrug, j.

"Michelle C." wrote ... Jeanne, it's great that you're DOING--it doesn't matter why or what.

As for Christmas, I'd be surprised if your DD and DS either know exactly what they expect for this Christmas either. The important thing is that you'll all be together. You'll all have to start figuring out what Christmas will be like now, and it may take some time.

((((((Jeanne and family)))))))))))

Michelle > got the oven fully cleaned and back in working order.

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LOL! So how old are DD and DS?

Michelle > i guess i could have asked them but i'm not sure how they'd react.

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30 and 25 respectively. i think DD is getting on ok, being a full days drive away, it is probably easier that way. DS moved home in march, only 4 days before and was with us when it happened. he'd only just broke up with his first/only girlfriend of 8yrs so wasnt in a good frame of mind anyhow but then that happened and nana also 6 days later. he got a triple whammy. so i'm not sure what they expect this year. i really need a manual. j.

"Michelle C." wrote ... LOL! So how old are DD and DS?

Michelle > i guess i could have asked them but i'm not sure how they'd react.

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Jeanne, maybe the best way is just to talk openly. Tell them what you've told us and ask for their help. Imo, although you're their mom and feel responsible for making everything right for your kids, they might be glad for the honest question and to help you out.

Hugs, Michelle

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after reading your response i asked dd about xmas day. did she want to do something different. she said like what? something religious. argh, she was kidding as we're not religious at all, no way, no how. asked her if she'd had Tim in any dreams this year. nope. nor have i. not sure what that means tho. its 9 months today. took him that long to be born, nearly didnt make that intact. was rushed out of the delivery room down the hall for oxygen, just in case. wasnt needed but ya cant be too careful. little did we know then.... so needless to say i'm having a rotten day today, well again. every day is rotten. :( i tried talking to dd but got nowhere. ds doesnt talk much either, typical male there. beats me what to do now. no decorations up here. my helper is gone. :( no presents bought. all i've done is cleaning, the fridge, freezer, oven, some major dusting that has been ignored for months and months behind other things that was easy to ignore. scrubbed down the wooden dining table that i usually do a good scrub on once a month, now my arms are really sore today but it is done. what good cleaning does i'm not sure really. just filling in my time i guess. shrug, j.

"Michelle C." wrote ... Jeanne, maybe the best way is just to talk openly. Tell them what you've told us and ask for their help. Imo, although you're their mom and feel responsible for making everything right for your kids, they might be glad for the honest question and to help you out. Hugs, Michelle

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Well, you gave it a shot....

Imo, you're not dreaming of Tim because he's so much in your conscious thoughts right now. It's okay.

Here's another thought about what to do for Christmas...what would Tim want you to do?

(Btw, I'm not religious either.)

Hugs, Michelle

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