Well, it seemed to go well. Informal meeting. No major problems. No one was drug out kicking and screaming. If nothing new comes up, we go through their little programs (signed up for parenting classes at the end of Sept) and in general we work with them, this will all be resolved and that'll be the end of it. We're such BAD people! (NOT!) So, everyone that was holding their breath, waiting for the other shoe to drop, relax. I think there IS a light at the end of the tunnel. And thank you all for your support and being there for me and mine.
See, sometimes being under scrutiny isn't such a bad thing. My theory is it's better that they look into as much as possible and not take the chance of missing something. To check and find nothing (or in our case a little light work) is much better to not check and miss something BIG. We've all heard the horror stories from both sides.
BTW, still looking for a house. Got a feeling this is going to take a while. They're either too expensive, don't take HUD, I wouldn't live there if you paid me, just not there or some other thing. What I wouldn't give to be independantly wealthy right about now and be able to build what we need where I want it!!
Good luck to everyone that needs it (I figure if I give it to you, it'll boomarang back to me, right?) I know I'm not the only one with problems right now. And hugs to all!
Later,
Helen C