Thanks so much to those of you who encouraged me so kindly on finishing the project for my friend who died. I got it out last night and managed to get going on it again. And it was fine: had to frog some stuff, tape part of the chart together, and look for threads, but it felt good.
I am thinking that when I get it done and framed I might leave the glass off. Her daughter will never be able to touch her mother, but she can touch her stitches. If there are problems with this idea, I'd appreciate advice.
Nice to be stitching again.