Great. =A0You can use them later. =A0I received a whole bunch of hand embroidered tablecloths etc. as wedding presents, and for the first few
years they were used on on Sundays and holidays. =A0Then, one year, when both kids were teenagers and away for the summer, I firmly told DH "OK,
there are no small children in this house any more, from now on we are usng the hand-embroidered cloths, the sterling, the bone china and the crystal every day!!" =A0He vetoed the bone china - he's a klutz and didn't want to break it - but agreed to the rest. It feels so civilised, using
"the good stuff" every day. =A0And, I may as well. =A0The silver won't take
any hurt and as for the linens, I know perfectly well that neither my daughter nor my daughter in law would ever iron them, so I may as well use them and enjoy them, and, if they fall apart, so what, it was nice while it lasted.
Olweyn Mary in New Orleans.
They SHOULD be used & enjoyed. Even when "the kids" do come & visit, it is a good idea to still use it. One of our EGA members (in her 90s) has her 5 year old great granddaughter use the "good stuff" when she visits just so that the little girl can learn to use it. I used to hate that "Corelle" dinnerware because families that I knew that had it would use it for kids, while the adults ate off of the"real" dinnerware. It annoyed me that they didn't think I had good enough manners to eat a meal without breaking dishes. Why not just TEACH the kids tablemanners so that the dishes don't run a constant risk of being broken? Granted, accidents do happen and the occasional piece will get broken but adults do that too. :-)
I admit that you probably don't want the cut glass candy dish on the coffee table when you have toddlers toddling around, but by the time they are three, they should be learning that some things can be touched and picked up and carried around, AND SOME CAN'T! Otherwise, how will they ever be able to be taken anywhere public or even to a friend's house to play? Granted, I grew up in a family of four girls, but there were plenty of boy cousins who had no problem visiting our house and not touching things they weren't supposed to touch. Running, jumping and rough housing was great - OUTSIDE! Needless to say, my extended family believed in teaching the children to have respect for "the good stuff" and not picking it all up and putting it out of reach of the children. :-)) It was usually made to be USED, not to be hidden away so that it doesn't have any meaning or memories anymore. Liz from Humbug