Your "friend from lily white middle America" must live a very sheltered life - we are no longer "lily white" or even just black and white - we have a lot of Hispanics, Asians galore. Mixed race couples and children are not uncommon. While we may not have the wealth of choices you may have on the coast, we DO have Thai, Indian, Vietnamese, Italian, Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Mexican, Spanish and other ethnic restaurants, as well as stores that carry more than La Choy.
I get really tired of "coasties" thinking that just because I live in the middle of the country I am somehow less worthy. I've lived on both coasts, TYVM, and while I miss the ocean, I enjoy many of the perks of the "flyover" country, including a lower cost of living and less stress.
I have patiently and tolerantly read through all this anti-Republican stuff posted by Victoria and Karen C. among others, but really, I've had it. You are WORSE and MORE INTOLERANT (and yes, I *am* yelling) than any far right Republican I know.
Karen and Vicitoria, I think your health issues have blinded you to some of the Republican economic policies that might benefit you, especially Karen and her small business. No, the Republicans aren't perfect, but they didn't create the entire mess we are in: you can thank FDR for inventing social security, others for expanding it and SSI benefits and everyone for the tax problems - no one party is to blame, but don't dump it all on the Republicans when far more of it was done by the Democrats.
It's amazing to me how high and mighty some of you are about issues important to you, but belittle those important to me. Interesting also how many of you who so vehemently support the Democratic party are childless. Those of us trying to raise moral, productive members of society often find that the D's don't agree with the standards we are trying to instill.
BTW - what charitable or non-profit work are you doing? I've served as a Girl Scout leader, I serve on my dd's swim club board, I've been active in PTA. I make and donate blankets to a children's charity. My kids regularly go to the food bank to help out putting things away and we donate food and money when we can. We help with animal charities. What about you?
Linda