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LOL - it's the Purple Jesus parties that really stick in my mind. I was too young to drink in college - the 1st go 'round. Hence - I spent a lot of time tending bar. Thanks for having such confidence in me. The god-daughter, her friends, mom & I were discussing this yesterday. I think of it as the Leonardo syndrome - as in being interested in oh so many things. Fortunately for Leonardo - he was amazingly gifted and able to truly master so many of them. The rest of us, well, we're merely mortal, and I'm always fearful of being a dilettante in way too many things & mistress of none, or few. Probably why I try to learn as much as I can about things that interest or intrigue me. Fortunately for me, DH has much patience, appreciates my eccentricity, and we don't have to care for kids to go thru school, college, etc or take care of elderly parents. I think part of my dilemma is deciding to do some things that are socially redeeming - hence the volunteer medic thing. I don't have to like the patients specifically, but can feel as if I'm doing something positive for humanity. Ah, well - so much out there....
Honestly - I notice what kind of stethoscopes they're wearing, and laugh when the docs have some $5 POS on, but in some of the med dramas they do a pretty good job. We laugh more about how ambulance stuff & Ers are portrayed. Being in a real trauma room is kind of a different experience. What they don't show is that someone is basically sitting up and recording absolutely everything. And there's a lot more light in the room.
For laughing - my crew of crazed techies - we tend to laugh at tech stuff. I've gotten hysterical at some movies where gov types that don't ever do anything but push paper are "doing" amazing, brilliant hands-on stuff in some hi-jacked plane, or the like. Mostly because we'll be going "yeah - we (the lab/field guys) would be doing that - as if fill in the blank can do anything - besides move some money. DH makes us watch all Navy films, especially sub stuff - so we can laugh - or appreciate the good work. Just depends.
Ah, well - DH is talking with his Dsis. The less crazy of my crazy, difficult SILs. I spoke with her yesterday. We lent them money over a year ago. Not that much - less than $1000, but they promised they would send it withing 2 weeks. OF course, that hasn't happened. But, as the track record goes - we paid their mortgage a few times, only repaid 1 time. I hate asking for it. But, they sold their place in RI, moved to NC, and have presumably done well on the financial trade - as the new place cost about
40% of what the old place did, and COL is much lower. They bought a small boat for the lake. And still, well.. Finally I asked nicely if they could send us the $ - given we've just had $ 6K in car bills that were paid, and we're definitely feeling that pinch. Response - er, umm, oh, well, I can do that when we have it. So, I've made DH call to chat, and discuss the request. It's so awkward to have to ask, especially as I'm the in-law. We would never let them suffer a hardship, but, honestly , I don't understand going out to spend $10 K on a boat, buying a bunch of other stuff, and not paying us back - with whatever excuse. OK - sorry for ranting.. Now I have to go and study, or something like that.ellice