I have been begging her for at least four years now. Begging her. Her plan is to move down here, buy a large house for us all to live in. While she is alive, we'd renovate it for her to have an apartment and we use the house. I can care for her that way and she won't need nursing home. At least until I can no longer care for her in certain ways. For now, she still loves her job and is stubborn. Her house will always be worth money. It's not her only one, either. So, in her time.
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