I spent five years on prednisone so I know a tiny bit about the affects. I started morphine for pain five years ago. Three times a day, every day. If I'm late for a dose I know it in half and hour. I also take a very, very mild form of chemo therapy to suppress my immune system, a form of quinine, an anti-anxiety med and sometimes an added anti-depressant. I'm frequently on antibiotics (Cipro three times in about 8 months) and still take bursts of prednisone. And spray it up my nose twice a day. I won't even begin to describe the things I do to provide moisture to various body parts that are so dry that it's not unusual to have spontaneous tissue splitting (think anywhere you body normally stays nice and moist).
I have a pretty good idea how I will die, and how many years this is taking off my life. I have a pretty good idea what my last few years will be like. Jeanne, even though I can't think of any truly good ways to go, I think vile and evil both fit the bill pretty well for what your mother endured.
Sorry for the outburst. I'm fighting this stupid, never-ending fever going on two weeks now along with the total exhaustion and screaming pain, and I'm exhausted and sick and really fed up with it all.
Sunny