Jane I am having arthroscopic but he told me I would need help for two weeks at least, so I don't know for sure. He says it will depend on how badly the knee is injured and just what all they end up doing. I am having day surgery, go in that morning and out that evening, if all goes well, but I am a diabetic and heart patient so anything could happen. I pray that my sisters will watch after dad that day. They say they will but who knows for sure. When I had my last heart cath and had to stay all night my oldest sister didn't even feed him. When I got home the night of the cath she called me and told me I needed to cook for him, heck I already had cooked she just had to warm it up. This is one of my worries, but after I get home he will be fine, because he will focus on me and he does pretty good if he has something to keep him busy, it is days when he is unable to get outside that really cause his memory to get bad. It will also be good for him to feel needed, we all need to feel needed, I just sometimes wish I didn't feel it 24/7. I have a saying that the Bible says that God won't put more on you than you can bear, I just wish He didn't have so much confidence in me. I have now found some recipes to supplement my already prepared food. It would be nice though if he would eat something like those crock pot meals and such but he would die if he had to, I do believe, he is use to a full country home cooked meal every day, meat, 2 veggies, bread, salad and dessert. My mother had him spoiled and to beat it all she worked full time too, but the two of them owned the business so she could normally come home when she needed to. She also reared us three girls and made all our clothes and now we did grow up with a house keeper I admit to that. I guess that is why I am so bad now. Thank God, the family that rents from us needs some extra money for Christmas and she is going to do my house work, I found that out tonight.
I also worry if with my eye doing so bad from the glaucoma if it is a good time to be put to sleep. I guess the closer it gets the more afraid I am getting.
Jacqueline
On Thu, 2 Nov 2006 18:04:40 -0500, "Jane Kay" wrote: