Re: Time....Thanks to all

I wish I could reply separately to all of you, since you were kind enough to take time to think about my little problem.

Since I don't have the small blocks of "waiting" time except at stop lights, the hand work isn't really much of an option. Though I remember making lots of sweaters and Christmas gifts while my son was at band/hockey/play practice! Mother is nearly deaf and needs me at her side when she consults with medical people. Most of the time I spend with her is much-needed social visiting (she gets lonely), taking her to the stores and shopping areas, and doing the household/yard chores and heavy work she can't manage any more.

That said, so many of you recommended Organization of the sewing space (so that I can snatch a few minutes here and there when I'm home) that I feel you have given me a good and viable way to get back to sewing. Therefore I have decreed Saturday and Sunday afternoons as "Organization Time" this weekend, and will devote that time to the sewing/computer room. Nothing short of a plumbing or family emergency will deter me from my self-appointed task! I particularly like the idea of leaving the sewing machine set up and the current project laid out ready to sew. After all, since I live alone there is no one to complain about the fabric and tools on the craft table!

Organization is not my strong point, so I'll have to work at it. But the end result is so worth it! And I will make a point of revisiting the Fly Lady site and picking up more help there.

Thanks again, fellow RCTQers! I love seeing the ideas that come from you all during these discussions.

Reply to
Carolyn McCarty
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WTG My machine hasn't been put away since I moved into this house (nearly five years).

If my visitors object I would be surprised as so many bring their machines to sew with me.

Does your mother sew at all? Could this be something you could do together at all?

Reply to
Cats

My sewing machine never gets "put away". I have always worked in small increments of time, between other chores, kids, etc. Now that DH and I are retired, I still work that way!

-- Susan in Kingston ON trying to get all the fall projects completed before heading south for the winter....

Reply to
Susan Torrens

I don't know whether it would be at all possible for you to hire someone to come into your mothers to do the heavy cleaning or do her shopping etc this would give you a break, give her some company and mean that the time you spend with her could be fun time. My neighbours daughter has just done this otherwise she spent all her "free" time cleaning and doing the housework. From my own experience looking after a different neighbour, I started to feel resentful of the time I was spending doing things for her when I then didn't have the time to spend doing what I wanted. I cut back when DS asked if I didn't love him anymore because I hadn't kissed him goodnight for several nights (I had been looking after the neighbour & he was already asleep when I got back)

AS I said it might not be possible for finance reasons or because your mother doesn't want a stranger in the house.

Take care of yourself

Sarah

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Sarah Dixon

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