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I wanted to post this, since so many members of this group lovingly contributed to the family HUGS. A few years ago, we lost our dog Deanna, due to seizures. We got Brady because the children and I couldn't live without a dog in our lives. Deanna came to the family after we had lost one of our cats to kidney disease. Well, now we've had Brady for 2 years and the doc was worried about a lump - that turned out to be fatty tissue that was breaking down. Today we took the remaining 2 cats in for their checkups and distemper shots. Nugget, hubby's cat, had lost almost half his body weight, so they wanted to do blood work. No problem, told them to go ahead. The doc also heard a heart murmur. Blood work came back and Nugget is in the beginning stages of kidney disease.

I called hubby at work (actually reached a coworker and had him get a message to hubby who was in a meeting). Hubby has decided that prolonging Nugget's life would be more mean than anything because of the other issues that are going on with him. We will be "talking" about it tonight, but the end result is that we will be putting Nugget to sleep....it's going to kill the kids and I don't think that hubby will be on board with getting a kitten (even though both kids REALLY want a kitten). It's not to replace Nugget, but more to try and fill the cat-shaped hole that will be left.

Shadow is still fine and dandy, though he's not happy about getting a shot today....

I'm beginning to think that we should just not have ANY pets (oh, and DS has suffered numerous fish losses in the past few weeks....no clue as to the cause as they were all doing fine, but he's now down 1 one bottom feeder and 4 tetras...he's not happy about that at all).

Larisa, needing to play with fabric to distract myself

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larisavann
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So sorry about your kitty. Barbara in SC

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Bobbie Sews More

Why is that?

Doc

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Dr. Zachary Smith

he doesn't want to have another animal to take care of. However, he's already given in...said that they could take a look after next payday (sigh). I think the fact that both were crying might have gotten to him, plus he told them that if MOM could convince him, he'd let them have one....so I told them that SPCA had a special - instead of $90 adoption fee, it was only $35 for kittens 6 months and younger.....we shall see how this goes...they are already bouncing around ideas for names

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larisavann

We love them so much and have to let them go ..... I know the children's hearts break (and ours too), but I have come to believe that dealing with the death of pets when we are young prepares us for the other losses that inevitably come with life. They learn to be tender, to love fiercely and to grieve when need be. And then to open their hearts to new love. It's hard, but hard isn't bad. And love is never a useless risk.

Hugs to all of you, Sunny

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Sunny

Isn't that the truth. A bit ago I found a bone that only could have been from my dear departed pooch Lea. It was buried and surfaced under some long ago placed stones. I sat and cried and missed her but you know for all the pain in the losing of her I wouldn't have traded all the joy she brought us. DH here didn't want other dogs after that loss but I am willing to risk for the Joy. I understand Larissa's dh being hesitant. I think a little time to process the loss helps moving forward a bit easier. I have been feeding one of our cats special food for signs of very early kidney issues. Is that and/or medication something that could help? I'm so sorry. This stuff is very tough. : ( Taria

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Taria

On Fri, 9 Jul 2010 10:04:25 -0500, off kilter snipped-for-privacy@somwherequiet.net wrote (in article ):

((HUGS))

Maureen

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Maureen Wozniak

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