Hon, I don't know or want to know the contents of the e-mail, but taking things to e-mail usually is considered to be the polite thing to do. Rather than saying things in this public forum.
May I suggest that you ask some more specific questions.
Tina
>And I don't appreciate your emailing me to say I'm "badgering the hell out > >of"
> >you. Or to tel me "Enough!" when it was you who came to this NG to begin > >with. >
> > Be that as it may, would you like to kiss and make up and start over? >
> I became more defensive when you took this topic to private email. It was
> enough to try to keep my perspective on the NG but I don't appreciate personal
> email trying to pound an idea into my head. I got your advice the first time
> around although maybe I should have said so more clearly. I have emailed you
> about starting over and for now, I will go back to lurking (which, by the way,
> I was doing before I ever posted here).
>
> Thank you to everyone who offered advice - it was appreciated.
> Mary
> Close To My Heart Consultant
>
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