vj found this in rec.crafts.beads, from snipped-for-privacy@mindspring.com (Lee S. Billings) :
]It may even have been reinforced overtly, by his friends or their ]fathers talking about cleaning up being "the woman's job".
ah - HIS own father. i really severely limited their contact with him, but he did a lot of damage anyway.
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