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LOL - Vic sometimes reminds me of my cousin - who is Australian now, and very strict with her children. She infamously ran away at almost 16 - with the heir to a large alarm company from Long Island - and was finally found in Boston - having had a good share of recreational booze and drugs. This must've been in the late 60s. Said cousin - who is about 4 years older than me followed her boyfriend (deported from San Francisco) to Australia in 1975

- after our grandfather's funeral - which she followed up by telling a bunch of tales to our grandmother who then gave her a bunch of money (despite being begged by her & my parents not to fall for anything) - which thus financed the trip to Australia. No looking back. Anyhow - the moral of the story is that 15 years later, at her folks in NJ, with her 3 kids - the eldest being 13 - her sister (my eldest cousin) and I had quite the time. Cousin Audrey is very "earthy", doing only socially responsible work, etc - and very, very strict as a mother. The kids had NO Idea at all... It was a riot - she said something that was so hypocritical we all almost fell out of our seats - and then we had the fun of a little tale telling - not all the bad stuff, of course. It was a wonder she survived - I think her dad was going to kill her half the time. But, now, in her 50s, you'd never know it was the same person.

Ellice

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Ah, Bird's custard. When I came back from living in Westcliff (near Southend) for those couple of years, I was ruined. First DH was raised quite a bit in British schools, and his eldest brother lived in Richmond upon Thames, so his tastes are quite British. And include the addiction to Bird's custard. I must confess - it took me a while to understand why all the time at desert (pudding) everyone whose house I was at offered custard. Then, I got the taste for it, lovely warm custard on anything... For a long time I would keep a tin of the powder about. In the local Wegmans there is a large international foods section - large enough to be divided by countries/regions. And there is a good amount of British products there - but they only carry Birds in the packets, and I hate paying that much for the little packet. However, the Indian grocer usually has it in a tin, and there are 2 British pantry/tea shops nearby. Maybe I'll have to take a ride

- I was actually thinking of needing some Bird's custard for a cake I was doing.

Ellice

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ellice

LOL - my DF would speak of his days in WWII - and lots of SOS (creamed chipped beef on toast).

Ellice

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ellice

I read a synopsis online ... it may take you awhile to get through it. Good luck!

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anne

Self respecting Canadian kitchens have a tin of Bird's, because otherwise you cannot make Nanaimo bars!

Dawne

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Dawne Peterson

Yes, it's amazing how virtuous some people become - I wonder if they truly forget and convince themselves it all happened differently ?

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lucretia borgia

On 12/28/08 11:17 AM, "lucretia borgia" wrote:

Hard to say. Sometimes I think that is the case. My cousin - who knows - her sister and I are very close, and we think part of it is that the Aussie one very much has always echoed the opinions of whomever she is following - not much of a thinker on her own. Her husband is very strident in his opinions, and she has gone along. These are the folks - who despite their own university educations (paid for by parents) and MS degress - dictated that their children should do honest labor, and there was no need for them to be prepared for even the possibility of further education than high school - well, with the exception of vocational trades education. Big family arguments when she came over to see her folks - all the adults dismissed the kids and had a huge discussion of this. As in, you were given the opportunity to make your own choices - how do you rationalize not providing the same tools and opportunities to your children. This had been spurred when the oldest child, at age 12, said to us when asked what she'd like to do - her ambition was "I don't want to be a checker in the grocery". But, the husband is very dictatorial - his way is the way - and while affable enough - the only "honest" work would be in the trades. Eventually under pressure to actually think about this, they moved so the kids could go to reasonable schools, and the eldest is a teacher, having gone to university. The 2 younger boys - one is a pipe/steam fitter - very hippie-esque - they travel all over to get jobs, not much of a permanent place. And the younger is a carpenter - who is also a musician and plays mandolin - has been tapped to do special sound track stuff in some films. My cousin, now in her mid-fifties has softened - and is devoted to her new little dog. But, still - she has sort of blocked out her hijinks of youth. And believe me - there were many. I still remember her asking me - in quite vulgar terms - if I'd had sex with my boyfriend while at summer camp. I was in NY after the summer in NC - I was a whopping turning 14 - and had of course been hanging with some 19-20 year old, but still......

Ah, well. We all live our lives, and I think remember them with some tint - just differs as to how much....

Ellice

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ellice

Nope.

However, I went to my DB's place (2 brothers who live in the family farm), and such is their lack of domestic skill that I brought 2 embroidered (one by my mother, and one by my aunt) and one linen tablecloth woven by another aunt home to clean properly. The cloths have been soaking in oxygen bleach solution all morning to get the stains from LAST Christmas out.

Maybe I'll give them back ... maybe not.

Dora

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bungadora

Dora, replace them with polyester easy care cloths, they will think they are wonderful and you can preserve your mother and aunts work lol

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lucretia borgia

Better hurry! I've started! Believe it or not, already had a problem

- I miscounted (despite counting 3 times, I swear!) the crosses in large diamond and did half of them over 6 before I realized it was 7!

Linda

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lewmew

Oh they'd probably be happy with plastic and paper plates. But family politics is what it is. Gotta love 'em. Dora

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bungadora

On the way in about 1 mimute. Also, to point out - on the area to upper left of center diamond - the part closest to the upper left border of the diamond she left blank. We compensated in the litle crossed flower things.

I'm pretty sure it's spelled out in the document I'm sending you.

Just be very careful counting the spacing between the dividing lines. I suggest doing the horizontal and verticals out from the big diamond, then 1 at least to either side. After that - you can do fun, but keep on finishing the dividers as you go. Don't do the outer border early - or even worry the inner border.

I know you're having fun.

Ellice

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ellice

I wasn't meaning you specifically, was thinking more of the cousin Ellice mentioned. I think people can put it so far behind them they believe the truth as they would like it to have been. You brought the subject up so clearly you have no illusions, so maybe it's the type of person one is, I tend to be black and white like you, no half measures and no illusions lol

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lucretia borgia

No Kiddin !!!! lol

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lucille

"lucretia borgia" wrote

I think having been a very bad kid made me a good parent; I tried to be the kind of parent I should have had, and my kids never felt they had to risk life and limb to prove I wasn't the boss of them. And because I had been there done that, and they knew it, they were easier with telling me what was going on, before they got too far into things that would be really messy to get out of.

Dawne

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Dawne Peterson

Oh cheeky face !!

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lucretia borgia

Ok - where's the recipe? Those sound lovely....

One of the local Chinese places always has a sweet vanilla custard out to go over "steamed buns". So good. The kids are quite hooked.

C
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Cheryl Isaak

Don't do it ! They are good but contain ten million calories per square centimetre !

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lucretia borgia

I would, just for that, except I am supposed to be packing because I am leaving for Calgary in the morning, and don't have time to type it up. But I am sure someone will come to the rescue. A Nanaimo bar has a fairly thick base of graham wafer crumbs, nuts and coconut in a chocolate sort of suspension, covered by a layer of butter whipped with sugar and Bird's custard powder, which gives it a lovely yellowy colour, topped by a layer of melted chocolate, and is indeed calorically dense. There are lots of versions, including using coffee in the butter layer for a cappucino version, which is pretty good too, but the classic is still great, and I don't think a saw a Christmas dainty plate that didn't have some. Dawne

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Dawne Peterson

How about this - I have also used vanilla instant pudding in place of Birds if need be.

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