OK, ever get the feeling you have "mug" or "idiot" or "gullable" on a big arrow above your head? Cos I do! A friend's DH has taken to phoning in the middle of the night leaving threatening messages against me but not my DH, as he's a nice guy! Yesterday woke up to find answermachine flashing with a message left at 03.00! Long story short was friends with his DW, but he keeps her under control, she has no freedom to do anything without him there. Now I think that he believes that he can bully me in to the same behaviour, OH NO, that aint going to happen.
Have filed a report at the local police station and now wait to see what happens. My major worry is that he is mentally unstable and owns a gun.... Trying to live my life as normal, have told everyone I know, who may have contact with him to be careful.
Just wanted to tell someone and I know that you are full of help and words of wisdom here ;) DH reckons he's a coward and that he won't do anything because it is the middle of the night when he left the messages, we haven't responded to him directly, just via the police.
Even in sunny France there are weirdos and no he isn't French he's English! The only other thing that may have rattled him, is that I have been invited to stand in our village's elections as a councillor and I think that he has a problem with strong women, so that may have unbalanced the situation aswell.
Thank you for letting me rant :)
Janner France