It's things like this that really make me dislike this time of year. Bad things seem to happen between Thanksgiving and Christmas. DH got a call from his Dad last night. Dad had some tests done last week and just got the results. He found out that he has bladder cancer. He's going to have it scraped and if the cancer hasn't gone all the way through, it's treatable. If it has, they will have to remove his bladder. I would appreciate any prayers you all can spare right now for DH and his family. I just cannot imagine not having Dad around, he's such a wonderful person. So please say a prayer for Dad that this cancer will be healed. I just cannot imagine life without either of my in-laws. I'm still trying to adjust to my brother being gone and he's been gone for almost 18 months. Anyway, thank you all so much.
Mika, I am so sorry. Cancer seems to be on a rampage right now for me, too- my dad, mom, son, my Missy girl. It's horrible. You and your entire family have my prayers. May the scraping get rid of all the cancer and your dear FIL have a long and happy life ahead of him.
Mika, I'm sorry to hear that your FIL is going through this right now - and it adds so much stress to what should be a joyful time of year. Hugs to you and DH - we'll keep all of you in our prayers and pray that the scraping is successful.
Mika, my older DSis had bladder cancer that required the removal of her bladder with the resulting ostomy. For those who don't know, an ostomy is a surgical procedure where they remove either the colon (for a colostomy) or the bladder (for a urostomy) -- there might be other sorts of ostomy procedures but I'm not aware of them.. Anyway, this means that the "tube" part of the "innards" (I can't think of the proper term) that deposits waste into either colon or the bladder is routed from the removed organ to the exterior of the body and a bag is attached (Dsis' used an adhesive pad) to the outside of the body for collection of the waste material. People can live a VERY long time after an ostomy procedure assuming that there is no cancer or whatever left in the body. DSis had squamous cell carcinoma of the bladder meaning that her cancer was within the cellular structure of the bladder and there was no tumor or exterior cancer affecting other parts of the body. She didn't even need any chemo or radiation therapy but she did have to live with that bag stuck to her side below the waist for well over ten years and her eventual death had absolutely nothing to do with the cancer. I want you to know that the Babies and I are saying lots of prayers for you and your family but I also wanted you to know about my DSis. She was born with a number of severe handicaps and this was just something else she learned to deal with. It really isn't that big a deal, just a P.I.T.A. to learn to deal with. {{{{Mika & Family}}}} CiaoMeow >^;;^<
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I'm so sorry Mika. I hope the procedure goes well and they are able to get everything with minimal surgery and treatment and your FIL has a quick recovery. Take care of yourself too. Hugs,
Big hugs and prayers for you and your family, Mika. My dad had BC and if caught early, it is very, very treatable. Y'all hang in there and know you're being thought of.
Thanks so much Leslie. I guess we'll just have a mutual passing of prayers between us for our families then. Wow! You really have a lot to deal with and I will keep you and your family in my prayers also.
Thanks so much Louise. It means a lot to me. And yes it's things like this that add to the stress. I immensely dislike this time of year anyway and always dread the period of time from November 1st to about January 4th. There are just so many depressing memories of deaths, custody battles, illnesses and such that have occurred during this period that I dread it. I truly appreciate all the prayers and good thoughts though. Thank you so much.
Thanks so much Taria. I appreciate the kindness. I'm trying to stay positive and help DH stay positive. Dad is in his 80's and still a pretty spry old goose so hopefully with all the prayers and good thoughts and all, he'll be ok.
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