Boy do I know that feeling! Last year we owed in the not so low 4 figures! When I asked DH what it was looking like this year... he said 86.... I about croaked! You KNOW what I was thinking! But guess what ... it was $86!!!!! I was so relieved...
I am the one in the household who does all the regular bill paying (for us... DH's mum and for our adult disabled son -- I think I should be awarded an honorary accounting degree!) -- so DH doesn't often look at the checkbook or the balances or the cancelled checks. However, I do all of my financial work on Quicken (computer software) and I am sinfully honest. So at tax time, when he goes back through all the various categories for tax info... he can't help but come across my Quilting expenses for the year.... OUCH OUCH!!!!
Although last year wasn't my highest ever -- not even in the top 3 (I've only been quilting for 8 years) so the amount of steam was minimal! LOL
I'm married to a really great guy! He indulges me... and my passions with few complaints! I am fortunate in that!
I hope the tax man is kind to all of you as well.