I love the layout Lynne! I was trying to image the layout with the patterened paper as the background and just couldn't do it. You've done a superb job with it! If DH asks about you thanking him as an after-thought, just tell him you saved the best part for last. :-)
As for the little one at your Scrap Nite. IMO, it's your house, you should have a say-so as to children being arouond at the time. I would never take either of my children to a crop, no matter where it was, simply for the fact that a crop is my time to do something that I enjoy. I can understand nursing moms needing to bring their baby with them, but even then, there's ways to get around that. Hopefully this mom will get your subtle hint. I think you handled the situation a lot better than I would have!