Oh I'm just yammering here, some personal opinions that surfaced while listening to a few ladies talk about helping youngsters learn to sew while in line at the cutting table at the fabric store.
One gal was saying that she had a machine that never did sew well and was a pain to run so she's giving it to her granddaughter to learn to sew. The other gal says she had an UNGRATEFUL niece that refuses to sew at all because she wouldn't stick with it and dear auntie had also given her an old machine of hers.
You know what, I think giving a kid a piece of junk to try to learn to sew on is the biggest mistake anyone can make. There are enough frustrations, as we all know, in the learning curve to complicate it with a machine that is a b**ch to sew on. When I was learning to sew I had my grandmother's old Singer. Although it was just a straight stitch it sewed smooth and no problems. Atleast I didn't have to keep trying to figure out what to do with the machine while I was trying to learn to put in a decent looking zipper. I think if you have a piece of junk machine that you hate sewing on just get rid of the darned thing, don't pass it on to ruin what could be a great learned skill by upping the frustration factor. I think the thing that ticked me off is that these gals admit that THEY wouldn't or could sew anything with these machines but were expecting some else to be grateful they got them for a 'gift'. Just doesn't make sense to me. I'm not saying you need to give a beginner a $1,000.00 machine, but there are certainly plenty of good inexpensive sewing machines out there to use.
One of the most helpful things my grandmother ever did was sit and rip out what I had put in wrong. She'd talk to me about what went wrong and how to do it right, by the time she had it ripped out and ironed down for me to start again I was calmed down, usually sent to wash my face (and tears) in a little cool water and I was ready to have another stab at it. I've done the same thing while teaching somebody to sew. A little kindness, a lot of patience and remembering how you felt when you first started goes a long way to make somebody really want to sew. I have never felt it does anyone any good to rub their nose in what they already KNOW they did wrong. I have watched the look on a young face when hold a wad of "oh my god, this is terrible" and I say......."Oh shoot, I used to do that too, we can fix it."
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh, I feel much better now LOL
Just an opinion,
Val