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Early morning phone calls from Dad are never good news.

My aunt Doris, Dad's older sister, the woman who taught me how to crochet when I was 10 and was watching her make a granny-square poncho for my then 2-year-old sister, died this morning. She had beaten cancer some 15 years ago, and it recurred earlier in the year. Her husband, Kurt, died a bit more than 3 years ago. They had been married for 62 years, and she really missed him. Not long before her cancer recurred she moved into an assisted living community, mostly because she didn't like living alone. Then when her cancer recurred she opted not to treat it. She had just lost the will to live and let it take its course. Apparently she had been doing okay until sometime yesterday, when she started heading south.

I'm gonna get through today and trick-or-treating, then I'll call Dad to find out more about what's happening back home. He's gonna be flying back this Sunday, with the funeral scheduled for Wednesday. I need to figure out if and when I can go back for this. We were the only "children" she ever had, and one of us should be there with Dad.

The Other Kim kimagreenfieldatyahoodotcom

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The Other Kim
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The Other Kim spun a FINE 'yarn':

aww, Kim! big HUG, Noreen

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YarnWright

Kim,

That's hard. I hope you have a chance to be with your dad so you two can get through this together.

Higs,

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Mystified One

Kim

I'm very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Leah

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Leah

I am so sorry to hear this, Kim. But it sounds as though she had decided that it was time to go. I will keep you and your Dad in my prayers.

Higs, Katherine

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Katherine

Thanks, Katherine, and everyone else.

I've got my flights arranged, going back Tuesday and coming home Thursday. Dad's got everything arranged for Wednesday, with visitation at noon, service at 2, burial right after, then back to the church for dinner. Turns out that my brother and sister are also gonna be there, which will be nice. I know that Dad will be staying at least until Friday; there are estate issues to deal with, and he's meeting with the lawyer on Thursday to go over those. I need to call him tonight and find out where everyone is staying. I'm guessing that someone in the family will have room for me.

I don't like going home for these kind of things, but that's the way it is. It'll be nice to see all the people I haven't seen in 10+ years regardless of the circumstances.

The Other Kim kimagreenfieldatyahoodotcom

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The Other Kim

Oh Kim, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I hope you can manage to make the trip to be there as a comfort for your Dad as I'm sure he will need it... but allow him to be there for you too, as you have lost someone near and dear to you as well.

I sympathize with you totally, as I am going through thoughts of my sister-cousin who is in pallative care dying of cancer too.

*hugs* Gemini
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