Mirjam, please don't go away. You know there are so many people here who care about you and watch for your daily updates on how you're doing in this terrible time.
I know you post a lot more often on the Yahoo group, and I do go there to check up on it, but those damn "spam-low" titles that people refuse to change just drive me nuts. ;>)
Don't let one careless remark keep you from coming here.
Love as always Shelagh
Thank you Shelagh , i remembered that i have more friends here ,,, and i stay ,,. As i wrote it was a mood ,,, we all are entitledto moods.
Times like this bring out in some people the best , and in others the worst. I have been through hard times as a younger girl , later as a teenager, and the one that mostly `moddeled` my understandings to what people do , are the years i worked as social worker . I myself try so much not to offend people , it would have the eassiest thing to be Critical after some events in other countries and say ; Told you so....' , but it isn`t helping anybody , it isn`t easy when one lives in a certain `abnormal` situation , to grasp the place it takes in one`s own world , but it is hrader to grasp , that this event , as big as it might seem to us , is but a Board game , to other bigger powers. We tend to forget that Historical Cultural movements happen over 100 +++ years,, Thus its takes some quiet thinking to get a hold on oneself and see that we are but toys in the Historical games , and all we could do is help our fellow persons , go through it with a bit of empathy ... Those who choose to be unkind ,, [ and alas this is one of the few things we can choose for ourself] , let them be unkind ,,, GOOD night , i hope it is a quiet one , mirjam
THANK YOU SO MUCH BB I still think this was a very tasteless remark ,maybe after the War we may start laughing about such things , but now it made me so sad ,,, After years of daily Terror in the rsturants and busses , after i lost good friends , No this was a very lousy remark , and i am thankful to you for being there for me , for i felt lonely ,,, so much so that i thnk maybe i should stop reading this ng for a while , You have been one of my reasons not to close the door on this ng .
AND THANK YOU THANK you so much for the other remark ..
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