I don't feel guilty about asking to see stuff at the LBS. I buy enough at their high prices to be a very good customer. And they know me well enough that they don't have to watch me. And I'll often buy a onies at the store and then order multiples from a catalogue. One of the things that you can't always tell from catalogues though, it how thick the metal is in some beads or clasp. Unfortunately, I like to get a better price, and sometimes I outsmart myself and get to light weight a bead.
Although Fairbanks is good for a small and remote place, and we have some nice art beads, the good imported beads here are very, very high (often as much as lamp work), as are findings.
Tina