Yes, well, I understand what you mean. I've been in a house with a "history", though it was nothing as spectacular as Tink's experience. I guess I made an effort to replace my fascination with that emotional distance that "florentine" talked about. I think Tink is calm enough about the situation to do this. Just trying to say that there can be a downside. If you leave a door open, you don't know what will come in. I'm saying it's better to politely and pleasantly keep the door closed.
- TL *