David -- after I found out you were from Columbus, and Carol's comments about the bodybuilding intriqued me, I went back to look at your site. The man I love is a black bodybuilder (53, probably older than what you are looking for unless there is a magazine for old bodybuilders, LOL). Here is my website:
Becki "In between the moon and you, the angels have a better view of the crumbling difference between wrong and right." -- Counting Crows