In my work and in my play, I come into contact with all sorts of people, rather than with only like minded ones. I find that I learn a lot from them and I hope that I can teach them something. One of my dog friends completely doesn't believe me when I say that Wal*Mart allows people to park in their lots overnight so that their employees will have somewhere to sleep. She thinks such a thing (people not able to afford rent even though employed) could never happen in this country. Another one was silent during that conversation but has recently said that she will never step foot in Wal*Mart again. So you never know.
Why do you assume I need to rethink it? You misunderstand it and have done for years (this is not the first time you've brought it up to me). I think you get hung up on the use of "revenge" perhaps. It's not about seeking revenge. It's about eschewing revenge completely and getting on with ones life. It's not about rejoicing in my prosperity, it's about *living well* whatever that happens to mean to you (to me, it means doing the things I enjoy whether they bring me money or "success" or not). It's something that my mother said to me before she died and it's something I need to be reminded of periodically, so I keep it in my .sig. I tend organically to be too concerned about what other people think and I need to work on moving beyond that. This phrase helps me do that. I'm sorry it bothers you, but I've been a much happier person since I started thinking this way.
Elizabeth