(((((((Lisa & family))))))) I'm so sorry for the heartbreaking loss of your little one! My sister-in-law and brother had the same thing happen to them a few years back. I stitched a Precious Moments design of a baby angel on a cloud dropping mail hearts over the edge. I added "My little angel" and my niece's name and her date. They have it hanging next to the baby pictures of their boys.
Even though the design has a little girl angel, I think it could easily be converted to a boy, iirc. Let me know if you'd like more information...
Joan (my address is unmunged if you'd like to email me directly)