I've had some ongoing pain problems for a few years now. So far this year I've had to endure a battery of tests. My blood sugar was slightly elevated as was rheumatoid factor. So I got to go to an arthritis clinic and have even more tests. All of them came back negative for the really bad stuff. So the verdict is I have fibromyalgia. I guess that is much better than the rheumatoid arthritis or lupus that my family feared, but I still would prefer to have something that can be cured. Oh well, at least it is an answer to something that has plagued me for over half a decade.
The doctor was quite matter-of-fact about it. He did put me on a low dose antidepressant but explained the connection between lack of sleep (which is certainly a big problem for me!), stress, and increased pain and said the medicine is to help me sleep better and is taken only at bedtime. If it doesn't help, the dose can be increased or different medicines can be given. He acknowledged the pain is real and not in my head and I'll most likely be stuck with it for life although it can come and go. While losing weight could help, only gentle water exercise or tai chi is recommended at this point since anything more harsh would increase the pain.
I know there are others here who deal with this demon so if you can point me to the online resources that have helped you most, I'd appreciate it.