More OT: QI psychology?

Saturday afternoon we had an about 6-month old

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(Can you see that he just said Hi)

orange male tabby kitten wander in the back door. He seems reasonable healthy (except for some ear mites) and has not been neutered. He also shows no inclination to leave. (He went back outside Saturday and hung out under the porch), Sunday when I left (and came back in when I got home), last night (and came in with the other cats), etc.

It appears he's here to stay. The humans don't necessarily have a problem with that and if he's still here at the end of the week, I'll trundle him off to the vets. If he's lost and been microchiped we'll get him home, if not....

Anyway, of the two current QIs, Katie Mae, the last one to adopt us seemingly has no problem with letting him stay. And she has been known to frequently chase other cats away. This morning she did not appreciate it when little small cat thought her tale was a new toy and pounced on it. But after some hissing and a smack to his nose (and he knew she was displeased) she's over it and quite contentedly sleeping on David's feet at the moment. She did not attempt to chase little small cat out of the house.

OTOH, Maggie Belle has mostly been under the bed when the other two are in the house since Saturday. This morning I can't find her at all. (I suppose she could be hiding in the bedroom somewhere, but since David is still asleep I don't want to go checking.) I don't want her attempting to run off because her nose is out of joint (she just hasn't been the same since QI Kropotkin died this spring).

We've tried hauling her out from under the bed to play with her and pet her, but she's a speedy escape artist and gets away and back under that bed pretty quick.

If, as seems likely, little small cat is here to stay (you ought to hear this guy purr), how do we help out Maggie Belle. Assuming I actually can find her and she hasn't already decided to move in with the neighbors?

Maureen

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Maureen Wozniak
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I've got a dog, so my helpin' you is out. Dog psychology is easy: like men, the way to a dog's heart is his tummy. And with ours, that's pretty much all she wrote! :)

Good luck!!

Hugs!! Connie :)

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SewVeryCreative

She *might* get over it in a few days...however, I had a cat who never got over a new kitten--eventually had to give the kitten away. Unlike Maggie Belle, my cat had NEVER been around any other cats though. I tucked away this bit of information in case I was evern faced with the situation again, but have never tried it. It might difficult since it appears your cats are both indoor-outdoor cats and this advice is for the pure indoor type, but maybe there is something you can use. Put the new cat in a room to himself and close the door. Don't let him out; give Maggie Belle a chance to come out of hiding and get used to him being behind that closed door. When she seems used to that, begin to feed her by the door, and feed the new guy by the door too. This way she equates good stuff--food--with the new guy. They may begin to play with each others paws beneath the door. Here's the tough part, structurally speaking. After they seem comfortable eating together so to speak, figure a way for them to see each other, but still remain separated. The advice recommended some kind of screen. When they're comfortable with each other through the screen, you've probably got it made. This may take a few weeks. Eke!

I'm sorry I don't have anything easy to offer.

Michelle in NV

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desert quilter

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