after a tearful conversation with the pediatrician, the decision was made to put Thomas back on his previous medication, but at a higher dosage. Today he was back to being the child he used to be!! He helped his dad in the yard for 2.5 hours, he played quietly in his room during quiet time, he played with playdoh at the dining room table and I didn't even know it (I was asleep on the couch in the next room), and he was willing to help make dinner tonight!!!
Because there was a movie that htey wanted to watch, I told him he could help me do dinner tomorrow night or MOnday night, and he accepted it with none of the whining that has been going on the past few weeks. Wow! What a difference in behavior!!
Thanks for all the thoughts/prayers/advice. They were truly appreciated, and I am looking into the diet and the vest. The diet might prove to be hard, but I will still look into it.
Larisa, much relieved to have Thomas back and not the Thomas clone that was running around.
P.S. He told me today that he felt great and didn't feel like things were going crazy for him, so I guess this was the right choice to make.