I had a really uncomfortable situation yesterday and could use some constructive second-guessing. While I was working, a 'good' customer used a sexual-orientation slur which I personally find totally unacceptable. But it was such a shock to hear that word that I was stunned and could not think of an appropriate response. I steered the conversation off into neutral territory and concluded the transaction.
While that may have been the correct retail response, I'm not feeling good on a personal basis. I would not want anyone to get the impression that I approve of or condone such language, much less attitude.
I know that people have different feelings about such matters and I probably can't change those. But I feel I have some right to assert my extreme uncomfortableness at the public display of those attitudes. Or not?
joan, in a quandry :<