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Hi all!

Just wanted to say hi to everyone, I haven't been in here much lately, not much time at the moment.....unfortunately have had to go through & mark as read, hopefully I get a chance to read everything, but I wont hold my breathe just yet...lol

Hi to all newbies if there are any, welcome to the group, look forward to seeing your works of art.

Update on bitb - (bubba in the belly), still unsure of dates yet, I have been trying to book an appointment to see my doctor, but the earliest one is

27th March, so I went to see another doc just to get a referal for an ultrasound, thats the only way to find out how far along I am.....Anyway, I left the doctors office almost in tears, all I can say is that I am so glad I didn't see that doctor with my first pregnancy, as I was scared enough back then!!!! She was sooooo insensitive & cold...She asked me about 5 minutes into the conversation "So, do you want to keep this baby, or not?" she was shocked when I said " Of course I do", then went on to point out all the things that could go wrong, & telling me not to get my hopes up about the baby just yet, because if I am only in the very early stages, it is likely I may miscarry, so to wait & have all the "expensive blood tests" until I find out how far along I am!!! I couldn't believe what I was hearing.....basically I would be wasting the governments money having any test done at this stage, cos I'll probably lose the baby anyway....thats what I got out of it anyway. I was so upset, as pregancy has made me very sensitve personality MORE sensitive, I couldn't say anything, but just felt relieved that I booked in the appointment with my regular doctor for the 27th, so from now on, if she's not available......I'll wait!!!!

I ended up having the blood tests anyway, just to spite her!

Anyway, I hope you are all well, & I'll try to get in more often next week

Luv Em

Reply to
Emmy_Jai
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Someone should slap that Doc upside the head! Now that's what you need a meanie making you feel bad! Glad you could see beyond her dire predictions! Somone should snd her a basketful of lemons...maybe she'd get the message!

I'm glad that you have another appoinment set with your Doc and will keep my fingers crossed that everything comes out perfect!

Reply to
M-C

What a terrible doctor. I can't believe she would actually talk to a patient that way. Sounds like she needs some sensitivity training. At least you don't have to see her again. Will be thinking happy thoughts for you and bitb!

Reply to
Cathy

Oh Em! I'm so sorry you had such a bad time at the doctor's office. I'm really glad they are not your regular doctor. I'm really glad it wasn't your first baby either. You've got some knowledge now to keep you calm and let you know she's a bit of an alarmist to say the least. Glad you popped in. Go do some scrapping and get that mean ole doctor out of your mind. :)

Take care, Lynne

Reply to
King's Crown

OOOOHHH I am so glad I was not there. She would have gotten a piece of my thoughs and anyhow can you file a complaint against her with patient rep officer? But if itis like here, those things just get put in th eround file anyhow!!

Prayers and JOYOUS greetigs for you in this happy time!!

((HUGS))

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OKC Dave

Oh Em I'm sorry you had to endure that physician with NO compassion for her patient! From what you said about her, she was wrong in assuming those things, and no one deserves that kind of treatment! I wonder why she would automatically assume the things she did? Does this office deal with a lot of young mothers-to-be who dont want to be in their situation? But,STILL.... she was WRONG. I hope you don't let her get to you, and dont go back to her ever! Try to SMILE!! Linda

Reply to
Linda C

Oh Em, I am so sorry you had to have a Doctor like that! Sometimes I wonder what they could be thinking ! I agree with M-C ,she needs a smack up side the head!! I think I would have to say...Why did you become a Dr? I don't think anyone twisted your arm to make you do it ! If you don't like the job then quit..... You just take are of yourself and that Bib and we will send postive thoughts and prayers for a happy uneventful pregnancy.

Hugs, Sabrina

Reply to
Sabrina

Can we slap the doctor now? :-) How awful of that doctor to put such negativity on you! Definately hold out until you can get in to see your usual doctor.

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Deb in AR

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