My dear BIL

Jul 12, 2005 47 Replies

Thank you Carolyne. He refused to stay in the hospital and carried on his life as if he were healthy...going to his lodge meetings and died at home...where he wanted to be. He did have a lot of pain but had Hospice care at home. He still drove himself to his lodge. Very determined ,gentle soul.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you for your kindness and prayers Deb and Tammy.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you Linda. I am having difficulty with my health and feel that I am not doing my usual part. I will not be attending the funeral today but was at the visitation yesterday. Very exhausted and Fred does not want me to overdo and end up in the bed. (Course I never end up in bed...I do the couch thing so I will always be where I can see everything )

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you Jessica. Your kind thoughts are welcome.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you Amy. We feel a little empty right now.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you dear dave. No the BIL you met was my brother. I will relay all of the kindness and thought and prayers to my dear Fred and to his sister. She is my rock.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you Chrissy. Much appreciated.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you Cathy. I am awake at this early hour and had to check in on my favorite group of people. Your kindness is appreciated.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you for your thoughts and prayer, Shannon

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you so much Mel.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you Sandy. You are very kind.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Dear Sabrina... hugs and prayers to you.. love Neets

My Dear Sweet Friend, I'm so sorry for your loss! I haven't had this experience yet so I don't know what to say but I'll keep you and Fred in my thoughts and prayers! Bigs hugs to you both! Barb:o(

I send my prayers that he gets threw this terrible time with some reassurance that he is in a better place now and is no longer suffering.

Fred is right, sweet lady! You take care of yourself! You are very important to all of us!

M-C

Thank you ,Barb. We are recovering and we do appreciate the thoughts and prayers sent by all. It really does comfort.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thank you Marie. We are comforted by the knowledge that he is no longer in pain. Last stage cancer can be very painful. We have taken a great deal of comfort from everyone's thoughts and prayers.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

Thanks M-C. We have always tried to keep our sense of humor in all things so I got a laugh out of Fred's comment on a beautiful flower arrangement. He said Wow Who sent this one? and my sil said You did,silly! He promptly replied,I didn't know I was so rich. Course I always take care of those things and he has no idea what stuff costs :-) We have a really lovely florist that I always use and they do such good arrangements. Everyone got a good laugh from Fred.

Hugs, Sabrina in Kentucky

a good friend is a life long treasure

I'm so sorry to hear this Sabrina!! Prayers being said for you and the family.

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