My mom

Oct 21, 2009 36 Replies

My Mom died unexpectedly quite recently, at age 87.



She had been failing for some time, partly from early Alzheimer's, partly from simply wearing out. We had moved her into a brand new retirement apt., gorgeous building, near my brother,and where we all could see her more often.



She seemed to be coming along, making the adjustment slowly, and feeling a bit like a princess in her lovely new digs. Brand new everything...nearly all of her furniture was new, new linens, towels, etc. She looked cute as a button sitting in her little gold club chair as she surveyed her new home..



Unfortunately her heart just gave out, and she died on Friday, Oct



  1. We had the burial on this past Saturday, in order for all of the family to make it in from various spots in Ontario, and my niece from Duke University.

For all of you who have lost a mother, you know what this is like. I miss her terribly. I keep wanting to call her to chat, but she's not there. I think the shock of her dying so suddenly was the most difficult, just as we had moved her, and were hoping for at least a few good, happy months,



Thanks to all for your kind words, thoughts and prayers.



Lynne in Toronto (keeping the chin up, and all that.)


Lynne, I'm so sorry for your loss. {{{Hugs}}}

Oh ((((((Lynne))))))....I am so sorry. As one who has lost her mom yes, I know what it's like.

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My deepest sympathy for your dear mothers passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Donna

Oh, Lynne. As i said on the other post, my deepest condolences. {{hugs}}

amy in CNY

Oh. Lynne, sending you and your family {{{{{hugs}}}}}

G> My Mom died unexpectedly quite recently, at age 87.

Lynne - you have my sympathy. Just remember she was in a wonderful place at the end and in beautiful surroundings. It's never easy losing a parent...

LaurieG. in CA

Lynne - you have my sympathy. Just remember she was in a wonderful place at the end and in beautiful surroundings. It's never easy losing a parent...

Laurie G. in CA

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Lynne - you have my sympathy. Just remember she was in a wonderful place at the end and in beautiful surroundings. It's never easy losing a parent...

Laurie G. in CA

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Lynne - you have my sympathy. Just remember she was in a wonderful place at the end and in beautiful surroundings. It's never easy losing a parent...

LaurieG. in CA

Lynne - you have my sympathy. Just remember she was in a wonderful place at the end and in beautiful surroundings. It's never easy losing a parent...

LaurieG. in CA

So, so sorry for the multiples......

Lynne, I'm so sad for you. I know this is hard. You have my prayers and good thoughts for time to be healing and bring you peace and good memories.

Hugs, Sunny

So very sorry for your loss.

Leslie

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are so with you.

Claudia

Lynne, sending many hugs.

Warm thoughts and prayers, Donna in SW Idaho

{{{lynne}}}}} she got nearly 9 decades on this planet.. thats gotta be a whole lot of memorys to recall and enjoy. better than most folks get. take care of yourself. j.

"lynne in toronto" wrote ... My Mom died unexpectedly quite recently, at age 87.

She had been failing for some time, partly from early Alzheimer's, partly from simply wearing out. We had moved her into a brand new retirement apt., gorgeous building, near my brother,and where we all could see her more often.

She seemed to be coming along, making the adjustment slowly, and feeling a bit like a princess in her lovely new digs. Brand new everything...nearly all of her furniture was new, new linens, towels, etc. She looked cute as a button sitting in her little gold club chair as she surveyed her new home..

Unfortunately her heart just gave out, and she died on Friday, Oct

  1. We had the burial on this past Saturday, in order for all of the family to make it in from various spots in Ontario, and my niece from Duke University.

For all of you who have lost a mother, you know what this is like. I miss her terribly. I keep wanting to call her to chat, but she's not there. I think the shock of her dying so suddenly was the most difficult, just as we had moved her, and were hoping for at least a few good, happy months,

Thanks to all for your kind words, thoughts and prayers.

Lynne in Toronto (keeping the chin up, and all that.)

And what I didn't say last night, as I was so tired (and some of you have asked) is that she died quickly and peacefully, in her new apartment. We could not get there in time, but she was almost gone when the EMS got there, and they tried to revive her on the way to hospital,, but when she did not respond after awhile, they let her go. It was just her time.

Mom made it clear for years that she did not want to be kept alive artificially, and she got her wish (and ours).

I spoke to her an hour before she died, and we had an upbeat, happy conversation. She was chipper and sharp as a tack. For this I am very grateful.

I am thankful for so many things: for the quick passing, for her life, for her legacy, and for the hundreds of photographs and newspaper clippings she kept about everybody''s life. She loved people. As I go through these memories, I will think of her with love.

Thanks to all of you sweet ladies, especially from those who have their own recent losses.

You are wonderful!

Thanks,

Lynne In Toronto

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